This is a subject I think I know very well. I have dated several fitness models ( not bragging ) It's just that girls that train or do photo shoots, compete, whatever, Look at us bodybuilders a little differently than the average 24 hour fitness dude. They either like muscle or they can learn to like it as you date them. From asking the question, what the "average " I said " Average' girl likes to many girls I know. And I'm talking Hot girls. There are 2 categories. The 1st. ) Girls that really don't workout... They might run or have a 24 hour fitness membership. These girls don't see anything but ( ABS. ) maybe chest. They really don't care to much for arms, believe it or not.
And " LEGS " Forget it. They don't even see them in their mind. With the long board shorts on the beach they cant see them anyway.
Calves. they don't care either. They all of course want a good face. Now there is group 2. ) These are girls that are really into Fitness !
They see things different. They look for Chest , Back, Legs and Calves. I love it when me and my girlfriend are out and she will point out some guy with big arms no Legs, calves, chest, back. You see they have a trained eye. My point is you are either a bodybuilder and you are going to put on the muscle you want and F..k what anyone thinks. Or you will be lazy and just train your upper body just enough and wear really long board shorts or pants all the time.
*** I live by the beach in San Diego, and we have a boardwalk ( well cement ) boardwalk that runs the a few miles along the beach.
Where people rollerblade , ride their bikes walk , run, etc...... So on one of the days I went to the beach. As I walk up I was standing there alone and wearing Dark reflecting sun glasses I could see what people were saying as they walked bye. I could even hear them as they were that close. Well this pretty girl was walking bye with her boyfriend, and they both look at me and he says to her
" What about him "

??. She said " Way too muscular " !!!!! ewww ! I thought to myself , yeah right ! as her boyfriend was a skinny/fat
Guy. ( I call them Kangaroos ) Anyway, It made me think. Did she just say that to comfort her boyfriend and prevent a fight. Or did she really mean it ?
What category was she in






?
Now I'm not at all too big in my eyes. 5'9 around 215 in these pics that Ive seen posted here on get big. Ive done several magazine covers, So I guess if you look like Markus rhul, not many girls are going to be into your physique. Unless they are bodybuilders themselves.
Train for yourself , not for what chicks want. It's not really about your body anyway after you meet them...