heh, nobody says shit to you. at least they dont if you are somewhat impressive or intimidating. if you are a out of shape guy to begin with, who just bloats up and get acne all over your face and arms, someone is probably going to snicker behind your back.
the only people that will discuss it with you are your closest friends, and they should be cool with it. if they aren't, i'd suggest getting some new friends.
most family and friends dont have a clue about bodybuilding anyway, so they believe that you just work out hard and eat a lot of protein
personally, i miss the days of AAS, but im better off in the long run
the hardest thing about being on AAS is the feeling you get when you aren't on them, and that takes years to get over.