At the NPC USAs, I spoke to Kai, and did ask him about the grapefruit act and other questions.
Kai himself is extremely well spoken, and he signed with Kemistry/Pinnacle, as he was in their booth all day Saturday and Sunday. Kai himself is married, his wife was with him when he won the 2007 Colorado Pro show.
Since he has gained more fame, and thus, more endorsement contracts, he is not an exotic dancer anymore, and that time has passed. But when you are a struggling competitor, making $1,500 a weekend for bacherlorette parties isnt bad. The Grapefruit was his gimmick, made the girls want more, and many exotic dancers have their own special gimmick. He isnt ashamed, but that was a phase in his life.
Kai has a tremendous career in bodybuilding ahead of him, his next competition is the 2008 Arnold Classic, where he stands to have a very good chance to make the top five.
So yes, via the internet, you can view his past exploits, but no - he is done with that.
If you go to the Olympia expo, go up to Kai, and you will see that he is humble, a great speaker, and nice to talk to, and will be an asset to the sport.
But lets go over something - many male exotic dangers dont do gay porn - get over it.