If you send an email to the Hotness that you're bangin' (and it ain't your wife), make sure you not only delete the "sent email" but also your "trash bin".
Have you ever been hit with your own boot, when you walked in the house?
how old is the hottie and how old is the wife?
in general the girl on the side is always willing to go the extra mile to please you
the wife (in general) lets herself go, doesn't work out...you literally have to beg for a blowjob
the young girl on the side usually does it without any prodding.