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Merv Griffin Dies at 82
« on: August 12, 2007, 08:57:31 AM »
Merv Griffin, TV Impresario, Dies at 82

LOS ANGELES (AP) -- Merv Griffin, who went from big-band era crooner to fabulously successful TV talk show host before making a fortune as the creator of two of television's most popular game shows and then parlaying that into a billion-dollar hotel empire, died Sunday. He was 82.

Griffin died of prostate cancer, according to a statement from his the family that was released by Marcia guy, spokeswoman for The Griffin Group/Merv Griffin Entertainment.

Griffin, who began his career as a $100-a-week radio singer in San Francisco, created the "Wheel of Fortune" and "Jeopardy!" game shows, soon moved on to become the featured vocalist in Freddy Martin's band.

That led to a brief film career, in which he appeared opposite Doris Day and Kathryn Grayson, and later to a successful TV career as host of "The Merv Griffin Show," which aired for more than 20 years.

His biggest financial break, however, came from inventing and producing "Jeopardy!" and "Wheel of Fortune."

After they became the hottest game shows in television, Griffin sold the rights to them to the Columbia Pictures Television Unit for $250 million, retaining a share of the profits. He started spreading the sale money around in treasury bonds, stocks and other investments.

He made Forbes' list of richest Americans several times and started putting money in treasury bonds, stocks and other investments. But he went into real estate and other ventures because "I was never so bored in my life."

"I said, 'I'm not going to sit around and clip coupons for the rest of my life,' " he recalled in 1989. "That's when Barron Hilton said, 'Merv, do you want to buy the Beverly Hilton?' I couldn't believe it."

Griffin bought the slightly passe hotel for $100.2 million and completely refurbished it for $25 million. Then he made a move for control of Resorts International, which operated hotels and casinos from Atlantic City to the Caribbean.

That touched off a feud with real estate tycoon Donald Trump. Griffin eventually acquired Resorts for $240 million, netting a reported paper profit of $100 million.

"I love the gamesmanship," he told Life magazine in 1988. "This may sound strange, but it parallels the game shows I've been involved in."

It was in 1948 that Martin hired Griffin to join his band at Los Angeles' Coconut Grove at $150 a week. With Griffin doing the singing, the band had a smash hit with "I've Got a Lovely Bunch of Cocoanuts," a 1949 novelty song sung in a cockney accent.

The band was playing in Las Vegas when Doris Day and her producer husband, Marty Melcher, were in the audience. They recommended him to Warner Bros., which offered a contract. After a bit in "By the Light of the Silvery Moon," starring Day and Gordon MacRae, he had a bigger role with Kathryn Grayson in "So This Is Love." A few more trivial roles followed, then he asked out of his contract.

In 1954, Griffin went to New York where he appeared in a summer replacement musical show on CBS-TV, a revival of "Finian's Rainbow," and a music show on CBS radio. He followed with a few game show hosting jobs on TV, notably "Play Your Hunch," which premiered in 1958 and ran through the early 1960s. His glibness led to stints as substitute for Jack Paar on "Tonight."

When Paar retired in 1962, Griffin was considered a prime candidate to replace him. Johnny Carson was chosen instead. NBC gave Griffin a daytime version of "Tonight," but he was canceled for being "too sophisticated" for the housewife audience.

In 1965, the Westinghouse Broadcasting introduced "The Merv Griffin Show" in syndicated TV. At last Griffin had found the forum for his talents. He never underestimated the intelligence of his audience, offering such figures as philosopher Bertrand Russell, Pablo Casals and Will and Ariel Durant as well as movie stars and entertainers.

With Carson ruling the late-night roost on NBC in the late 1960s, the two other networks challenged him with competing shows, Griffin on CBS, Joey Bishop (later Dick Cavett) on ABC. Nothing stopped Carson, and Griffin returned to Westinghouse.

Meanwhile, Griffin sought new enterprises for his production company. A lifelong crossword puzzle fan, he devised a game show "Word for Word," in 1963. It faded after one season, then his wife, Julann, suggested another show.

"Julann's idea was a twist on the usual question-answer format of the quiz shows of the Fifties," he wrote in his autobiography "Merv." "Her idea was to give the contestants the answer, and they had to come up with the appropriate question."

"Jeopardy," begun in 1964, became a huge moneymaker for Griffin, as did a more conventional game show, "Wheel of Fortune," starting in 1975.

Mervyn Edward Griffin Jr. was born in San Mateo, south of San Francisco on July 6, 1925, the son of a stockbroker. His aunt, Claudia Robinson, taught him to play piano at age 4, and soon the boy was staging shows on the back porch of the family home.

"Every Saturday I had a show, recruiting all the kids in the block as either stagehands, actors and audience, or sometimes all three," he wrote in his 1980 autobiography. "I was the producer, always the producer."

After studying at San Mateo Junior College and the University of San Francisco, Griffin quit school to apply for a job as pianist at radio station KFRC in San Francisco. The station needed a vocalist instead. He auditioned and was hired.

Griffin was billed as "the young romantic voice of radio." He attracted the interest of RKO studio boss William Dozier, who was visiting San Francisco with his wife, Joan Fontaine.

"As soon as I walked in their hotel room, I could see their faces fall," the singer recalled. He weighed 235 pounds. Shortly afterward, singer Joan Edwards told him: "Your voice is terrific, but the blubber has got to go." Griffin slimmed down, and he would spend the rest of his life adding and taking off weight.

Griffin and Julann Elizabeth Wright were married in 1958, and a son, Anthony, was born the following year. The couple divorced in 1973 because of "irreconcilable differences."

"It was a pivotal time in my career, one of uncertainty and constant doubt," he wrote in the autobiography. "So much attention was being focused on me that my marriage felt the strain." He never remarried.


http://www.nytimes.com/aponline/arts/AP-Obit-Merv-Griffin.html?_r=1&hp&oref=slogin


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Re: Merv Griffin Dies at 82
« Reply #1 on: August 12, 2007, 09:01:07 AM »
Griffin was one of at least three well known gay billionaires.  Can you name two others?

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« Reply #2 on: August 12, 2007, 01:32:00 PM »
Griffin was one of at least three well known gay billionaires.  Can you name two others?

Oprah and Liberace.

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« Reply #3 on: August 12, 2007, 01:54:27 PM »
Griffin was one of at least three well known gay billionaires.  Can you name two others?

didnt know he was.
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Re: Merv Griffin Dies at 82
« Reply #4 on: August 12, 2007, 02:16:33 PM »
didnt know he was.

I heard Deney Terrio tried to sue him for sexual harrasment while he was the host for "Dance Fever"

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« Reply #5 on: August 12, 2007, 05:16:52 PM »
I heard Deney Terrio tried to sue him for sexual harrasment while he was the host for "Dance Fever"

He did... but the suit was thrown out of court.

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Re: Merv Griffin Dies at 82
« Reply #6 on: August 13, 2007, 01:52:19 AM »
whatabout mellenie griffith
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« Reply #7 on: August 13, 2007, 04:13:31 AM »
i just talked to a friend who bodyguarded Merv back in 88'.  And he said Merv was gay.

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« Reply #8 on: August 13, 2007, 10:50:33 AM »
It is interesting that in all the obituaries, mini bios, and appreciations I have read on Merv Griffin since yesterday none made any reference to his bi/homosexuality.

In and out of Hollywood, it is widely known that following the end of his marriage, Merv Griffin lived as a gay man.  He had a long term male companion and his share of short term paramours.  At one point, (1980's) he was sued by Deney Terrio, the male host of the TV program Dance Fever, for sexual harassment.

To my knowledge, Merv never publicly affirmed his homosexuality.  He never outed himself in interviews to gay publications like the Advocate or paraded his male companion for public consumption, but he did live his (gay) life and he did so without apology or qualification.  

His accomplishments in Hollywood, real estate, and the business community (at one point he was a billionaire) are certainly noteworthy but very few men of his generation were known to be gay and still enjoyed his degree of capital and influence.  

To be sure, Merv was more than his sexuality, but it says something very negative about out our society that at this late stage of history such a large cultural figure could be so publicly remembered and written about even as writers and audiences bend over backwards to pretend not to know what so many of us do.

Denial created the very culture that kept Merv (to the degree he was) in the closet.  It would appear he will remain there even in death.  This, too, is cause for mourning.  :'(

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« Reply #9 on: August 13, 2007, 02:07:58 PM »
just out of curiosity Bay, how do you know he was gay/bi? i have never heard anything about it and like you said over the last couple days with all the stories about him everywhere there was not one mention of it.
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Re: Merv Griffin Dies at 82
« Reply #10 on: August 13, 2007, 04:02:14 PM »
http://www.nytimes.com/2007/08/13/arts/television/13griffin.html?_r=1&ref=obituaries&pagewanted=all

The revised and expanded obit in the NYTimes, which I read today, does make mention of “questions about his sexuality” near the end.  The one they posted online yesterday made no mention of it.  They now mention him being sued by Denny Terrio and the palimony lawsuit as well.  Both suits were dismissed.

Unlike some (militant) gay people, I think coming out is a personal decision and no one is under obligation to come out for someone else’s benefit.  While I do wish more people would do it, I think it is a decision that everyone must make in their own time and in their own way.  Some people never make the decision and that is their call.

I think Merv knew that coming out as bisexual would have undermined his viability in show business and business.  He was also from a generation when men, by and large, did not come out.  I can’t fault him for that.  I just think it is curious that the 3 obits I read yesterday said nothing about this bisexuality.  I have seen a few today that do mention (at least rumors of) it.

As for how I know, no, I did not sleep with Merv, and I cannot objectively “prove” that he was bi; I can only put my credibility behind the assertion and tell you that I would never make the assertion if I didn’t know it was true.  I have nothing to gain by making this up.

Merv’s sexuality was not a secret among anyone in the know, in the 80s and 90s.  Even though he never publicly came out many people (in the loop) knew about him.  He is very much in the tradition of Rock Hudson in this regard.  Many people knew about Rock too, but no one talked about it.  Middle America only learned about Rock because he contracted hiv/aids.  If that had not happened, the media never would have outed him.  The same thing happened to Yasser Arafat. Although he was “married” (he didn’t marry until he was in his 60s and his “wife” lived in France) he was widely known to be gay; rumors of bisexuality dogged him for many years, but the American media never mentioned it.  But do a search for "Yasser Arafat  gay hiv" and you’ll find stories published abroad.

Merv lived an amazing life.  I regret that I never had a chance to meet him.

Still, I find it fascinating that American journalism, which so often thrives on sensationalism and tabloid angles has shied away from this aspect of Merv's life.


Btw, David Geffen is another one of the gay billionaires.  Can you name another?

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Re: Merv Griffin Dies at 82
« Reply #11 on: August 13, 2007, 04:25:22 PM »
thanx bay. i wasnt trying to flame or bash you, i was legitimately curious.
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« Reply #12 on: August 13, 2007, 06:09:47 PM »
Hey Bay serious question, is there like a club or something where just gays are allowed and you guys all talk about famous people who are gay or had sex with.  I mean guys like Merv or Cruise who are gay are obviously paying their lovers some good money to keep quiet.  Is there some kind of code of ethics or something you guys have to sign. 

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« Reply #13 on: August 13, 2007, 07:43:07 PM »
Well, gay bars are everywhere, so I assume you are talking about something a bit more exclusive. 

I don’t know of any such “clubs” but there are always private parties (dinner parties, pool parties, house parties, etc.) in NY or LA for example.  When a high profile (yet closeted) person is going to attend, if they are able to do so, they carefully screen the guest list so that people who attend are people that can be trusted to keep their mouths shut so to speak (there is a joke in there somewhere) :)

If the high profile person is not hosting the party, then the host makes sure to screen people and/or warn people that discretion is expected.  You don’t get invited to these events if your discretion is not already proven.  Blabber mouths are screened out at lower levels so they never make it to the main events.  Even so, word can trickle down and it can happen rather quickly.  Virtually, every gay person I know, knew about Merv Griffin and they have for years.  I first heard about him when I was in high school and that was back in the 1980s.

There is a similar dynamic in bodybuilding.  There are some pros that are out and open.  Some are very closeted.  Some are straight but still "available."  We have all heard of bodybuilding afterparties... some are relatively open with their guests lists.  Some parties are on the DL and the lists are carefully screened.  The DL after parties for the NOC were notorius.

Even among the discreet, people gossip.  We having a saying where I come from, “anything known by two people is not a secret.”  It’s true.  :-\

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Re: Merv Griffin Dies at 82
« Reply #14 on: August 14, 2007, 08:01:11 AM »
Um let's see  . . . Bill Gates?  Donald Trump?  Mike Douglas?  Steven Jobs?

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Re: Merv Griffin Dies at 82
« Reply #15 on: August 15, 2007, 11:58:40 AM »
Isn't it curious how often conservative wives are friends with gay men?

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« Reply #16 on: August 15, 2007, 07:07:03 PM »
Isn't it curious how often conservative wives are friends with gay men?

Sinatra wasn't gay.

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« Reply #17 on: January 11, 2008, 05:59:10 PM »
 ;D

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Re: Merv Griffin Dies at 82
« Reply #18 on: January 14, 2008, 03:31:37 PM »
I read in Wikipedia that he was buried in a Dracula costume. 
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