i hear ya brutha, seems like when a guy in your type of hood makes it big they seek out a big White girl as a status symbol, any truth to that?
unfortunately that seems to be case..
this are too many factors that contribute to this..too numerous to iterate in this forum.
Actually I was in michigan over the weekend, I met with a couple of brothers persuing their PHD in african america studies and this topic came up. A friend is actually writing his thesis on this subject, I read part of his paper. perhaps I will ask him to send you an early draft