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She's gone back to brunette, her natural color, and has agreed to grow out her bush for me......

Things that directly clash with the specifications of her soon to be ex-hubby.

She's calling me twice daily every day, not to mention the days I train her and the nights we've been out for chinese.

I didn't let her over to my apartment because I'm responsible, yet she's very aggressive sexually, to the point of getting wet whenever we meet.

How do I know?

Those late nights in her BMW after work proved the point.

She admits to me that the effects I have on her are uncontrollable.

Now she's wanting to "do something" after work on Saturday.

I suggested the zoo, she's pushing for a movie...

Does this seem like a relationship to you?

Things have turned gangster in a hurry.   :P



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Re: When a woman makes accomodations for you.........is it a relationship?
« Reply #1 on: September 07, 2007, 01:52:25 PM »
She's almost got you into the boat, LOL!

But to answer your question.. No. What you have is the illusion of a relationship. Most people make judgements based upon illusions anyways so she's courting your need to be in control ego with minimal appearance changes.  :)

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« Reply #2 on: September 07, 2007, 02:00:24 PM »
She's almost got you into the boat, LOL!

But to answer your question.. No. What you have is the illusion of a relationship. Most people make judgements based upon illusions anyways so she's courting your need to be in control ego with minimal appearance changes.  :)

Fuck that shit, nugg.

I see it for what it is, but I wonder if she realizes that she's wanting more than something on the side.

I don't know many women who call twice daily or more and don't see it as something significant.

What's your take?

What is "the boat"?


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Re: When a woman makes accomodations for you.........is it a relationship?
« Reply #3 on: September 07, 2007, 02:03:49 PM »
She's gone back to brunette, her natural color, and has agreed to grow out her bush for me......

Things that directly clash with the specifications of her soon to be ex-hubby.

She's calling me twice daily every day, not to mention the days I train her and the nights we've been out for chinese.

I didn't let her over to my apartment because I'm responsible, yet she's very aggressive sexually, to the point of getting wet whenever we meet.

How do I know?

Those late nights in her BMW after work proved the point.

She admits to me that the effects I have on her are uncontrollable.

Now she's wanting to "do something" after work on Saturday.

I suggested the zoo, she's pushing for a movie...

Does this seem like a relationship to you?

Things have turned gangster in a hurry.   :P



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Well casanova, maybe she really likes you and wants to impress you :) If you really like her then go for it buddy.

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« Reply #4 on: September 07, 2007, 02:08:13 PM »
Well casanova, maybe she really likes you and wants to impress you :) If you really like her then go for it buddy.

I'd like to wait until her divorce is over, bro.

She's already guilty about talking to me, so sex would tend to push that over the top.

She's wet though...........that is true.   :-*


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« Reply #5 on: September 07, 2007, 02:12:30 PM »
Fuck that shit, nugg.

I see it for what it is, but I wonder if she realizes that she's wanting more than something on the side.

I don't know many women who call twice daily or more and don't see it as something significant.

What's your take?

What is "the boat"?


DIV

When a fish gets hooked, you reel it in onto the boat. :)

It's a lot easier to play someone who is "too smart to be played".

My only question is how many times she's done this in the past. She's way too smooth for this to be her first time around the block. She probably runs this game twice/year and then stops things with the old "you don't understand how difficult it is for Mormons to get a divirce" bit.

I'd like to wait until her divorce is over, bro.

She's already guilty about talking to me, so sex would tend to push that over the top.

She's wet though...........that is true.   :-*


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Hmmm,

You've gone from no sex until after the divorce to "I'd like to wait until her divorce is over"

Next you'll be imagining how nasty it would feel for her own spit to be used as lube. :)

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« Reply #6 on: September 07, 2007, 02:20:47 PM »
When a fish gets hooked, you reel it in onto the boat. :)

It's a lot easier to play someone who is "too smart to be played".

My only question is how many times she's done this in the past. She's way too smooth for this to be her first time around the block. She probably runs this game twice/year and then stops things with the old "you don't understand how difficult it is for Mormons to get a divirce" bit.

Hmmm,

You've gone from no sex until after the divorce to "I'd like to wait until her divorce is over"

Next you'll be imagining how nasty it would feel for her own spit to be used as lube. :)

She's not religious, bro.

Her divorce is already in the works, just legalities like property to go through.

I already told her she'll have to move this along if she wants anything from me.

I've already seen her naked, Jake........so it's not like sex is so far away.

It's mainly me that's keeping that at bay.

If I really wanted it, I'd have invited her over a week ago.


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« Reply #7 on: September 07, 2007, 02:22:19 PM »
I'd like to wait until her divorce is over, bro.

She's already guilty about talking to me, so sex would tend to push that over the top.

She's wet though...........that is true.   :-*


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Oh man this is too good to be true, Div. She's on a silver platter right in front of you. Get in there man. Whats the worst thing that could happen? If she turns out to be a chronic, then ditch her.

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« Reply #8 on: September 07, 2007, 02:30:43 PM »
Oh man this is too good to be true, Div. She's on a silver platter right in front of you. Get in there man. Whats the worst thing that could happen? If she turns out to be a chronic, then ditch her.

She's relationship material..........not just a sexpet.



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« Reply #9 on: September 07, 2007, 02:39:24 PM »
She's relationship material..........not just a sexpet.



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In that case do you really want to hook up with someone who's in the middle of a nasty divorce? All that baggage? Keep her as a sex pet. Your brain will thatnk you as you won't experience any headaches in the future :)

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« Reply #10 on: September 07, 2007, 02:40:31 PM »
In that case do you really want to hook up with someone who's in the middle of a nasty divorce? All that baggage? Keep her as a sex pet. Your brain will thatnk you as you won't experience any headaches in the future :)

She wants the zoo.........She's wanting my time on the weekends.

What does that tell you?



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« Reply #11 on: September 07, 2007, 02:44:02 PM »
She wants the zoo.........She's wanting my time on the weekends.

What does that tell you?



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She doesn't know you very well? :)

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« Reply #12 on: September 07, 2007, 02:47:48 PM »


Div this is not your personal Stuart Smalley affirmation board
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« Reply #13 on: September 07, 2007, 02:48:29 PM »
She wants the zoo.........She's wanting my time on the weekends.

What does that tell you?



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I say take her to the Division school of hard cocks...I mean knocks (sorry but I couldn't help that one) and go crazy. She's horny as hell because obviously the loser she's married to isn't satisfying her needs.

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« Reply #14 on: September 07, 2007, 02:58:26 PM »
I say take her to the Division school of hard cocks...I mean knocks (sorry but I couldn't help that one) and go crazy. She's horny as hell because obviously the loser she's married to isn't satisfying her needs.

Maybe he's a nice guy but too busy with work for the amount of attention she needs.

Men are far more likely to cheat for sexual reasons than women.

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« Reply #15 on: September 07, 2007, 03:02:05 PM »
Maybe he's a nice guy but too busy with work for the amount of attention she needs.

Men are far more likely to cheat for sexual reasons than women.

I already covered this, Jake.

He's got PE and won't do anything about it, not to mention the fact she's grown apart emotionally from him.

She wants another man for various reasons.


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« Reply #16 on: September 07, 2007, 03:08:16 PM »
I already covered this, Jake.

He's got PE and won't do anything about it, not to mention the fact she's grown apart emotionally from him.

She wants another man for various reasons.


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« Reply #17 on: September 07, 2007, 03:11:41 PM »


I suggested the zoo, she's pushing for a movie...





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balls of fury wus mucho funny....i suggest yall go watch that..."ping pung" lmao....why that craks me up everytime!



date her already mayne...whats holding ya?
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« Reply #18 on: September 07, 2007, 04:08:55 PM »


Div this is not your personal Stuart Smalley affirmation board
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« Reply #19 on: September 07, 2007, 04:09:51 PM »
date her already mayne...whats holding ya?

On some level..... he knows major drama is going to follow this.

Also, Div is trying to grow up. Remember, bro. We create most of our problems. Div can avoid months of drama by passing up on this chick. He knows this but there's something about that first time with a new back door that's addicting.

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« Reply #20 on: September 07, 2007, 04:16:42 PM »
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« Reply #21 on: September 07, 2007, 04:54:20 PM »
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« Reply #23 on: September 08, 2007, 10:57:30 AM »
She's relationship material..........not just a sexpet.



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This is your first mistake, she's not relationship material. Women going through divorces ARE NOT relationship material. There's way too much baggage at this point in her life. You're setting yourself up for failure and disappointment.

I'm curious why you would want something real with a woman going through a divorce. Are you a masochist?

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« Reply #24 on: September 09, 2007, 07:00:14 AM »
If you're looking for a fuck-buddy, then a divorced woman would be hard to beat. If you are looking for a relationship, avoid her at all costs.