I think a lot of people in this thread are making valid points:
BFury, the Muslim community seems to have a big problem becoming secular, good point. Although Islam isn't 2000 years old, it's approx 1400 years old. This is actually something interesting, because 500 years ago, how secular were our societies?
There are those who argues that Islam is 500 years after Christianity in its development. Well, I think we don't have 500 years, and that there is another difference: The Qu'ran is supposedly the direct words of Allah, leaving no room for interpretation to our modern times.
The Muslim culture and the Western Democracy aren't kosher. They don't mix. That's a big problem.
You have lots of tolerant individuals in our society that doesn't want to see the errors of the Muslim culture. Somehow, they think these people are excused by their culture to not treat women like equals, to have different laws.
We can never accept the Muslim culture. But we must accept and help the Muslims, learn them democracy.
Finally, "modern" Muslims, those who claims to be Muslims, but live just like a regular bloke, don't do the Ramadan, and don't follow the preachings of Muhammad (PBUH), they're not living the Muslim way.
Either you follow the Qu'ran 100%. Or you don't. There's no in between. Or some "modern day Islam version". Because the Qu'ran was written by Allah, and Allah is without flaws. So if you want to make adjustments to the Qu'ran, then you're obviously not believing in Allah as an almighty God.