This is actually a very good statement. I know my problem is mental. My physical is not the problem it was a few years back. The only thing that keeps me going forward (even at the mega slow pace) is knowing that I did look pretty good and was strong at one time and know that I can do it again.
I know, I could get alot deeper also, but you get my point =)
I may seem like a retard but I can be pretty smart when it comes down to it lol, I turned down a psychologist education lol.
IF I lived close to you I could help ypu with motivation , im great at motivating people, better at that then motivation myself actually haha, im all about "tough" love.
This may sound strange coming from a 20yr old, but its the truth =)