You don't wear your strength to the degree that you do your muscle mass. I'd argue that building muscle is more about impressing males than simply training for strength.
Achieving things in the gym can build confidence for other things and can be fun in its own right, apart from just trying to impress someone other than yourself. It can be like meditation, it can be like a release. If you train to impress others you wont last long. It has to be fun in its own right. You are too simpleminded.
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yes i am so simple minded
i already have self confidence douchebag.
in fact, my major flaw is my ABUNDANCE of confidence. maybe even ARROGANCE. and no, its not the type of arrogance that is just on the surface that is covering up insecurities underneath. i honestly believe that i am fucking genius, that i am one of the most beautiful people on the planet, that my sense of style, my personality, the way i talk, walk, and move are all the IDEAL.
i just dont project a sense of superiority upon other people.
but i am also in REALITY, and if my body doesnt look cut up and muscular i know that my amount of sex, or at least the inverse amount of effort i will have to put into have sex, will go way down.