we opted out of the napkins (turns out we had some lovely ones!!!).
but we did buy the following:
a cooking bag, apparently you put the turkey in this and it bastes itself, no need for the baster.
stuffing
gravy mix (two bags)
pepsi
diet ice tea (don't ask)
a case of heineken
a case of corona
a sixer of red stripe (i picked this out)
grapes
a head of lettuce
i think we have everything now for a lovely family dinner!