For me , I played football on Saturday with my freinds from home. I didnt lift two days before cause it was Thanksgiving and havent lifted since cause i was really sore from the game. So today, im probably just going to do some moderate wieght...continue to do so next week as well and then go all out heavy three weeks from now..then take a break for christmas (three days) then go light and work up to going heavy in the same fashion. God forbid i have to not go to the gym cause I have family and freinds...