Having kids is supposed to somehow make your life complete? Fuck that, I don't have a problem with anyone else having kids but that shit isn't for me. Whole life turns into taking care of the kids. No way.
I watch my brother, who use to be a stud but is now driving a mini van and has that tell tale beer belly -- anyway, I watch him and his life. When you have kids, and he just has two, everything you do in life because a grand laborious chore. When they want to go to church, the mall, to a movie -- anywhere. It becomes this big grand production. Setting up the car seat, making sure you have all the kid supplies, getting dressed -- I mean just trying to round everybody up to get moving is a bear. I get exhausted just watching it. And this doesn't even include all the chores. The driving and picking up. The shuffling from here to there. That's why guys like bigmc just escapes and gets drunk and posts on this board and waits for what gh15 is going to say next. Quite a "dad" he is.
Yeah, planting your seed and watching someone else bring in another innocent human life into this cess pool of a planet. Yeah, quite an accomplishment. BTW, I bet I support financially more kids than he does.