Author Topic: One woman's response to a cheating spouse  (Read 6561 times)

Butterbean

  • Moderator
  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 19326
One woman's response to a cheating spouse
« on: December 20, 2007, 10:56:34 AM »
.
R

Playboy

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 11315
  • If the bar ain't bending, you're just pretending
Re: One woman's response to a cheating spouse
« Reply #1 on: December 20, 2007, 11:00:47 AM »
.

Ouch. But if she was smart she would hit him how it hurts. Through a lawyer.

xxxLinda

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 4918
  • thank you Ron & Getbig, I've had so much fun
Re: One woman's response to a cheating spouse
« Reply #2 on: December 20, 2007, 11:14:21 AM »
Brilliant thread.   What about the American woman (Bob ich or something), who cut her hubby's dick off?  Or the British woman who shredded all of her partners suits and shirts and gave away his entire wine cellar (after he went off with his secretary after 30 years and two grown up children)  I'll google them later and we could do a thread about the best way to deal with a cheating spouse...

(I'm fairly certain that's why I never got married !


Gotta go to a party, back in 3 hours
xL

xxxLinda

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 4918
  • thank you Ron & Getbig, I've had so much fun
Re: One woman's response to a cheating spouse
« Reply #3 on: December 20, 2007, 11:17:44 AM »
20 years ago I spray painted DRUG DEALER on the car of a boyfriend who wouldn't leave. 

He did after that.
xL

Playboy

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 11315
  • If the bar ain't bending, you're just pretending
Re: One woman's response to a cheating spouse
« Reply #4 on: December 20, 2007, 11:19:27 AM »
I once sprayed DRUG DEALER on the car of a boyfriend who wouldn't leave.  He did after that.
xL
Your lucky you didn't get sued for property damages. Thats why I said hit how it hurts....with a lawyer. Not revenge.

xxxLinda

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 4918
  • thank you Ron & Getbig, I've had so much fun
Re: One woman's response to a cheating spouse
« Reply #5 on: December 20, 2007, 11:22:39 AM »
oh come on!

>>>I have a sense of humour but very little money.  i couldn't have afforded a solicitor.  anyways, he quit and after that he sorted himself out, so i'm pleased.

Playboy

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 11315
  • If the bar ain't bending, you're just pretending
Re: One woman's response to a cheating spouse
« Reply #6 on: December 20, 2007, 11:25:58 AM »
oh come on!

>>>I have a sense of humour but very little money.  i couldn't have afforded a solicitor.  anyways, he quit and after that he sorted himself out, so i'm pleased.

I hear you.

xxxLinda

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 4918
  • thank you Ron & Getbig, I've had so much fun
Re: One woman's response to a cheating spouse
« Reply #7 on: December 20, 2007, 04:16:26 PM »
amazing photo STella.  fantastic really.

She shoulda hacked his boat in half.


But what troubles me is the stuff on the front lawn. 
Are those childrens toys thrown out of the window into the street?  that's scary.


If it's just the toaster and kettle and iron and vacuum cleaner it's okay.  Glad someone took a pic.

xL

24KT

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 24455
  • Gold Savings Account Rep +1 (310) 409-2244
Re: One woman's response to a cheating spouse
« Reply #8 on: December 21, 2007, 03:55:46 AM »
Ouch. But if she was smart she would hit him how it hurts. Through a lawyer.

Sometimes, ...just leaving them is enough, and will hurt them more than any lawyer ever could.

I heard about one woman who knew her husband was messing around, so while he slept, using a child like script, she wrote across his buttocks in permanent marker "Please send our Daddy home."

Apparently that did the trick. The first woman who saw that, immediately kicked him out of her bed, and sent him home, ...and he was forced to keep his pants on for many months until all the skin sloughed off.  ;D
w

BuffGoddess

  • Competitors
  • Getbig III
  • *****
  • Posts: 654
  • Failure is not an option, train hard, get big.
Re: One woman's response to a cheating spouse
« Reply #9 on: December 21, 2007, 09:39:55 PM »
Sometimes, ...just leaving them is enough, and will hurt them more than any lawyer ever could.

I heard about one woman who knew her husband was messing around, so while he slept, using a child like script, she wrote across his buttocks in permanent marker "Please send our Daddy home."

Apparently that did the trick. The first woman who saw that, immediately kicked him out of her bed, and sent him home, ...and he was forced to keep his pants on for many months until all the skin sloughed off.  ;D

Hahahahaha!!!! Thats priceless! My way of dealing with a cheating spouse was even better....I let him keep all the crap, I traded up! New man, new house, new car, getting spoiled rotten...ahhhhh..revenge was sweet....and fun! Memories...

powerpack

  • Getbig IV
  • ****
  • Posts: 3166
  • Time to get Buck wild!
Re: One woman's response to a cheating spouse
« Reply #10 on: December 21, 2007, 09:50:57 PM »
As long as men are allowed to do the same back to their cheating spouses I am cool with it  ;)

BuffGoddess

  • Competitors
  • Getbig III
  • *****
  • Posts: 654
  • Failure is not an option, train hard, get big.
Re: One woman's response to a cheating spouse
« Reply #11 on: December 21, 2007, 10:17:38 PM »
As long as men are allowed to do the same back to their cheating spouses I am cool with it  ;)
Whats good for the goose...we aren't sexist here...by all means turn about is fair play...

Blockhead

  • Toms
  • Getbig V
  • *
  • Posts: 7793
Re: One woman's response to a cheating spouse
« Reply #12 on: December 22, 2007, 10:01:56 AM »
As long as men are allowed to do the same back to their cheating spouses I am cool with it  ;)
Right.

 If dudes did the same we'd get in BIGTIME trouble with the law. The law is set up in America where a woman can go buck-wild to and aginst their men and it's okay. They can do whatever they want and get away with it. A man? If a man breathes the wrong way he can get hit with an Order of Protection and go to jail.

 I know someone 'very close' to me who got into a domesto with his wife. dumb argument turned her going into apsychotic rage dousing him with hot water and punching, clawing, scratching, biting him until he bled. He simply pushed her off of him and restrained her on the floor until she calmed down.

 She quietly calls the cops. Cops come and HE gets arrested despite the visbile claw amrks, bite marks, skin redness and swollen eyes from the hot water splashed in his face. Then he spends 3 days in county.

  Too many liberal judges and laws got created to set it up to where they think they're above the law and got us men by the balls.

 I know so many men who had their lives ruined by a stupid girl with emotional problems.

 "Oh, judge...he threatend me". Then he gets hit with an O/P and loses his job abd gets a criminal record. Let ME go in a courthouse telling a judge..."Your honor, I am being stalked by a woman who I was in a relationship with that I ended. I am fearful. I request an O/P"

 I'd be escorted out and denied.


?

24KT

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 24455
  • Gold Savings Account Rep +1 (310) 409-2244
Re: One woman's response to a cheating spouse
« Reply #13 on: December 26, 2007, 05:10:46 PM »
Could that be because you are a 'Blockhead'?
w

zygote

  • Getbig I
  • *
  • Posts: 9
Re: One woman's response to a cheating spouse
« Reply #14 on: December 27, 2007, 11:38:12 AM »
   Classic blame-liberals-for-everything kneejerk response.
   Judicial stupidity knows no ideological boundaries.

BuffGoddess

  • Competitors
  • Getbig III
  • *****
  • Posts: 654
  • Failure is not an option, train hard, get big.
Re: One woman's response to a cheating spouse
« Reply #15 on: December 29, 2007, 07:24:55 PM »
The laws were put in place to protect women from abusive partners, but as we all know, men can be abused as well. Men should have the same rights and protection that women enjoy, it's kind of a reverse discrimination. My opinion is not very PC on this subject, but if a woman raises her hand and hits a man, she shouldn't expect him to just take it, but also the man should not beat her up if all she did was "bitch slap" him either. The ideal situation is for everyone to respect each other, and for domestic violence to become a thing of the past.

Playboy

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 11315
  • If the bar ain't bending, you're just pretending
Re: One woman's response to a cheating spouse
« Reply #16 on: December 31, 2007, 05:17:58 AM »
The laws were put in place to protect women from abusive partners, but as we all know, men can be abused as well. Men should have the same rights and protection that women enjoy, it's kind of a reverse discrimination. My opinion is not very PC on this subject, but if a woman raises her hand and hits a man, she shouldn't expect him to just take it, but also the man should not beat her up if all she did was "bitch slap" him either. The ideal situation is for everyone to respect each other, and for domestic violence to become a thing of the past.
Bullseye.

gtbro1

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 6893
Re: One woman's response to a cheating spouse
« Reply #17 on: December 31, 2007, 05:39:50 AM »

BuffGoddess

  • Competitors
  • Getbig III
  • *****
  • Posts: 654
  • Failure is not an option, train hard, get big.
Re: One woman's response to a cheating spouse
« Reply #18 on: January 12, 2008, 09:05:08 PM »

OOOOOOHHHHH ouch....but I wouldn't advertise it...Better to settle it behind closed doors...

gtbro1

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 6893
Re: One woman's response to a cheating spouse
« Reply #19 on: January 12, 2008, 09:20:22 PM »
Yep..if a man is cheating he is a scumbag. If a woman is cheating, it's because the man is a scumbag  :-\

BuffGoddess

  • Competitors
  • Getbig III
  • *****
  • Posts: 654
  • Failure is not an option, train hard, get big.
Re: One woman's response to a cheating spouse
« Reply #20 on: January 12, 2008, 09:23:13 PM »
Yep..if a man is cheating he is a scumbag. If a woman is cheating, it's because the man is a scumbag  :-\
True that!

powerpack

  • Getbig IV
  • ****
  • Posts: 3166
  • Time to get Buck wild!
Re: One woman's response to a cheating spouse
« Reply #21 on: January 12, 2008, 09:54:11 PM »
Yep..if a man is cheating he is a scumbag. If a woman is cheating, it's because the man is a scumbag  :-\
What  ???

gtbro1

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 6893
Re: One woman's response to a cheating spouse
« Reply #22 on: January 12, 2008, 09:56:18 PM »
What  ???


Just refering to the epic double  standard that exists among some women. If a man is cheating he is a horrible person...but if a woman is cheating...it must be the man's fault somehow. He must be mistreating her or something.

powerpack

  • Getbig IV
  • ****
  • Posts: 3166
  • Time to get Buck wild!
Re: One woman's response to a cheating spouse
« Reply #23 on: January 12, 2008, 10:44:15 PM »

Just refering to the epic double  standard that exists among some women. If a man is cheating he is a horrible person...but if a woman is cheating...it must be the man's fault somehow. He must be mistreating her or something.
Sorry my bad  ;)

Even my own Mother runs by that philosophy that is a man cheats it is his fault and if a woman cheats it is also the guys fault LOL
I have had a few girl friends cheat on me in my time AND THEIR FRIENDS would ask me what I did to cause it  :-\  :-\  :-\

BuffGoddess

  • Competitors
  • Getbig III
  • *****
  • Posts: 654
  • Failure is not an option, train hard, get big.
Re: One woman's response to a cheating spouse
« Reply #24 on: January 12, 2008, 10:52:12 PM »
Okay OMG I was joking...Nobody should cheat! I was just saying I agreed because the way it was said was funny...I would not cheat on my man just as I would expect him to not cheat on me...