I sincerly hope he told Alti in person or at least by phone (still shitty way of doing it), but reading Alti's post, I would have to say she found out by word of mouth or a message board. That is a shitty thing to do...Does new wifey make him happier or something, none of us know, I just think he should of been a gentleman about it.
Alti, I don't know ya, but I know you will be fine and I know it hurts like hell (I assume). Keep ya head up