QUESTION FOR YOU LADIES ABOUT A COMMENT I MADE!!!!!!!!!

[The Squadfather]

ok i'm wathcing American Idol with my girlfriend last night and a really pretty thick healthy type of girl with big hips and legs comes on and i say, "damn, look at that heifer, very nice", i've always used "heifer" as a nice word for the type of women i like, thick and healthy, the old lady got a little bit annoyed and thought it was an insult. what do you girls think?

[Butterbean]

Was she annoyed because she thought it was an insult or that you were lusting after another woman in her presence and being vocal about it 

[The Squadfather]

Was she annoyed because she thought it was an insult or that you were lusting after another woman in her presence and being vocal about it 

no the "lusting" after other people is very open with us, she does it to guys as well, we're not possessive like that, she just thought it was an insult to women to call them a "heifer".

[Butterbean]

no the "lusting" after other people is very open with us, she does it to guys as well, we're not possessive like that, she just thought it was an insult to women to call them a "heifer".

Is your girl aware you've always used heifer as a "nice" term?  If so, I don't know why she took it badly.

I used to know a guy who loved they way super-skinny girls looked.  He'd walk around the bar eyeing them and kind of sing-songing "Anorexia, anorexia..."  But they didn't realize he was complimenting them lol

[The Squadfather]

Is your girl aware you've always used heifer as a "nice" term?  If so, I don't know why she took it badly.

I used to know a guy who loved they way super-skinny girls looked.  He'd walk around the bar eyeing them and kind of sing-songing "Anorexia, anorexia..."  But they didn't realize he was complimenting them lol

yeah i told her that it's always been a complimentary term with me, i've always loved the thick curvy girls.

[michael arvilla]

"heifer" means cow to everyone i know


lol def not a compliment

[JediKnight]

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[Playboy]

yeah i told her that it's always been a complimentary term with me, i've always loved the thick curvy girls.

No sex for a month now. Hope you have a mistress SF

[Laura Lee]

Definition of heifer 
   


Main Entry: heif·er 
Pronunciation: he-fer
Function: noun
Etymology: Middle English hayfare, from Old English hēahfore
Date: before 12th century
: a young cow; especially : one that has not had a calf

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I can tell you this Squad, no woman is going to believe you were using that term in a positive way.

[The Squadfather]

Definition of heifer 
   


Main Entry: heif·er 
Pronunciation: he-fer
Function: noun
Etymology: Middle English hayfare, from Old English hēahfore
Date: before 12th century
: a young cow; especially : one that has not had a calf

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I can tell you this Squad, no woman is going to believe you were using that term in a positive way.

you know what's funny is that i actually learned that term as it pertains to women from a black guy i went to high school with and i soon found out that a lot of black dudes use that term to desribe women and they always used it to describe women that they were attracted to so i always thought of it as a nice term.

[Laura Lee]

you know what's funny is that i actually learned that term as it pertains to women from a black guy i went to high school with and i soon found out that a lot of black dudes use that term to desribe women and they always used it to describe women that they were attracted to so i always thought of it as a nice term.

I think a lot of black guys prefer thicker women.  They are not attracted as much to skinny women.  You know the old "more cushion for the pushin" comment.  lol

[AllisonEthier]

ok i'm wathcing American Idol with my girlfriend last night and a really pretty thick healthy type of girl with big hips and legs comes on and i say, "damn, look at that heifer, very nice", i've always used "heifer" as a nice word for the type of women i like, thick and healthy, the old lady got a little bit annoyed and thought it was an insult. what do you girls think?

I would not have listened to what you would have said, as I would be watching the show.
Like men, I cannot focus on 2 things at the same time....
A.

[Princess L]

ok i'm wathcing American Idol with my girlfriend last night and a really pretty thick healthy type of girl with big hips and legs comes on and i say, "damn, look at that heifer, very nice", i've always used "heifer" as a nice word for the type of women i like, thick and healthy, the old lady got a little bit annoyed and thought it was an insult. what do you girls think?

Heifer is definitely an insult, just another term for fat.  And referring to your SO as "the old lady" is extremely condescending and disrespectful.

[NeverTrustABlonde]

"heifer" means cow to everyone i know


lol def not a compliment

agreed

[Original Sin]

Heifer is definitely an insult, just another term for fat.  And referring to your SO as "the old lady" is extremely condescending and disrespectful.

Who's surprised about that?

You should call this the "Dog the Bounty Hunter" defense.  He didn't know the term guy was offensive either.  Give me a break!
 

[The Squadfather]

I would not have listened to what you would have said, as I would be watching the show.
Like men, I cannot focus on 2 things at the same time....
A.

you sound like my kind of girl.

[24KT]

Heifer is definitely an insult, just another term for fat.  And referring to your SO as "the old lady" is extremely condescending and disrespectful.

ditto! 

ps: It also doesn't matter one iota how we feel about it. bringing our feelings into it just makes it worse.
It's how your girlfriend feels about it that counts, and she's made that pretty clear.
If you go back to her and say, "Well I asked so & so, and they don't care..." you'll only dig yourself in deeper.
If you go back to her and say, "Well I asked so & so, and they thought it was an insult too, ...so I'm sorry",
...AGAIN, you're digging yourself in deeper doodoo than before. She will now be pissed off that you refused to simply accept that you offended her by referring to women as "cows", and are only willing to respect her feelings after having them validated by others. You're already in the doodoo, just simply tell her you're sorry, and that you won't do it again.

[Butterbean]

 And referring to your SO as "the old lady" is extremely condescending and disrespectful.

I missed that!  When I hear a guy refer to his s/o as "the old lady" I always ask "How old is she?"    loloz



Squadfather, how old is she

[The Squadfather]

I missed that!  When I hear a guy refer to his s/o as "the old lady" I always ask "How old is she?"    loloz



Squadfather, how old is she

34 in March, she's ancient.

[Deedee]

Since you're talking animals, does your old lady refer to her old man as her big stallion?  Cause it is the girl board, so we need to know all the details.   

[ripitupbaby]

I would not have listened to what you would have said, as I would be watching the show.
Like men, I cannot focus on 2 things at the same time....
A.

 

[gtbro1]

Since you're talking animals, does your old lady refer to her old man as her big stallion?  Cause it is the girl board, so we need to know all the details.   

  no...not a stallion but close....She probably calls him Jack Ass...hahahaha

[The Squadfather]

Since you're talking animals, does your old lady refer to her old man as her big stallion?  Cause it is the girl board, so we need to know all the details.   

absolutely yes.