Why were you back at your ex-girlfriend's? Reconciliation a possibility? A 'one for the road' last roll in the hay? Or just simply getting the last of your stuff at a time when she won't be there?
We've been broke up for over a year and a half. We lived mainly on together for 3 years.
She was an awesome girl but I wasn't ever in love with her. She treated me good and vice versa.
We are still friends and I had a lot of things over at her house from a recording studio I used to own
and my own house that I rented to friends while I stayed with her. I was remodeling a couple of houses
close to where she lived and some of my best friends wanted to get their kids in a better school system.
(My House) so we stayed at her place. My ex was at work and I met her mom to get the rest of my stuff. I think her mom would like to see me with her than the guy she's with now. My ex works 7 days a week and at times I'm extremely busy
so it's taken about 5 different trips to get my stuff over the last year and a half. I didn't have the heart to kick
my best friends out of my house so we all live together and get along although the garage is full of stuff.
(Main reason I havn't been in that big of a hurry to get the rest of my stuff from my ex.)
It does help on the mortgage payment having roomates but I do miss having the house to myself.
I stayed with her for 3 years because I wanted to fall in love with her and I hoped I eventually would.
I was attracted to her and she treated me like a king so it made it hard to break it off. She wanted to get married
and I figured after 3 years it wasn't going to happen for me so it was better for her to find someone that
would love her like a husband is supposed to love a wife.