Lori, don't let these "kids" get ya down. You look great, Jennifer looks great. You both are at different stages of life and contest shape. There is no need to explain yourself to these children. You already know you get yourself into a shape on stage that they couldn't touch or even fathom understanding. They seem to think that every girl has to look like a 18 year old pro figure girl during a contest 24/7 to be hot. Just shows their immaturity.
I think you both rock!