Vince I am a very happily married straight man, who has beautiful wife, and a great life.
The queen vissy in a cheer leading outfit, was just a joke, dont take it so seriously, ligthen up.
As far as my drug use, I was totally drug free up until 2002, every natural show I did polygraphed tested EVERY athlete, and urine tested the winner in every class.
I competed on anabolics from the years 2003-2005, and was very open and honest about my anabolic use.
I haven't used an anabolic is over 2 1/2 year, and I still weigh 245lbs, and I am fairly lean, I am right around 7-8% bodyfat.
The bottom line is I believe natural bodybuilders are "real bodybuilders", because they dont just rely on drugs to build there bodies.I am not bashinh guys who use anabolics, but the reason I stopped competing is because its literally chemical warfare out there.
The person who uses the most drugs and the best drugs, will usually win.
Yes alot of its genetics, how hard you train, and how much cardio you do, and how good your diet it.
But when your only using $1500 worth of anabolics for 12 weeks, to do a national show, and your competitors are using $5000,-$10,000 worth of anabolics , the odds are against you
.I dont care how good your genetics are, or how hard you train, you cant beat anabolics.
So Vince even though I joke with you, I do respect the fact that you are natural, and continued to remain natural even though people have made fun of you and doubted you.