If you were a guy, would you date a woman...

[Laura Lee]

So who is quantifiably/qualifiably more valuable to you, your husband or your child?

I'm not married.  But I have always made it known that my children (as children) will always come first.  As adults, if my children had a problem with something I was doing or someone I was seeing...there may be an issue as they are adults and should have a better sense of things and letting me live my own life.  But as "children" ... they are my life. 

[parsnip1965]

I'm male and have dated a woman with a kid (that she had when she was married).  It wasn't bad and I would have done it again, but I'm married now with my own kids.  She had drug and sex issues (couldn't stay faithful and wanted me to play around too, which I eventually did) but was very smart, and the fact of having a kid didn't get in the way of my having an interesting and sexy relationship with her.

[24KT]

Does being wealthy afford you all this time to type super long posts? Or is it just me?

I am living a life of Wealth & Abundance, and it affords me many things including ...yes time
My wealth & abundance however is not defined by the money I make, the car that I drive, or the house I live in
It is defined by the gratitude I have in my heart and the ability to make a difference in the lives of others