I should maybe clarify this by saying that I'm not good w/children.
Stella, I take it you do not have your own children, yet? I think if you had your own you wou have a different outlook on children.
I remember when I was younger I said I would never have children! 4 kids later I love them they humble you with their sayings and your sense of purpose is clarified, well thats my experience!
Yes they can be a pain if not trained properly out of the gate but they are true blessings. Now I can't stand teens lol they think they know everything and don't know anything but they will quickly remind you of what your parents had to deal with when you were a teen.
Infant/Toddler (0-3) are easy
Pre-School (3-5) are busy and need alot of attention
Tweenage (5-13) They are in the rhetoric stage more outspoken
Teens (14-20) they think they know more than you, even though their breath still smells of breast milk (the most challenging time for any parent), but if you do well in the preceding years you won't have much insubordination or rebellion.
IMHO
HMIC