Talk about some bad luck

[stormshadow]

Sadly, many seriously depressed people don't take this seriously.

Everyone has to have a reason to keep going, especially in difficult times.  Victor Frankl author of "Man's Search for Meaning" was a survivor of the Nazi death camp, and he stated that "a man that has a why, can deal with any how."

For many it was the hope of seeing their families again, for him it was the goal of writing his book and continuing his work in psychology.

The default for most humans is to have a wife and children, this gives them purpose and meaning for their life, ensuring their survival and replication.

Now someone like me that doesn't have a wife, and had a vasectomy at age 25 requires something more than pumping a load into a female and creating children to keep me going.

[windsor88]

Is that a yes?

What if you got hurt in a wreck and got fucked up really bad and could never workout again?  Would you kill yourself?

[Beener]

Yeah i dont see how its selfish. like real depression is pretty fucked up shit. They're so depressed its really almost impossible to think of what other consequences there could be. They're practically suffering every hour of every day. Im not sayin suicide is right, or that they'll go to heaven, but saying its selfish?

[io856]

something more than pumping a load into a female and creating children to keep me going.

hot.

[candidizzle]

Is that a yes?

What if you got hurt in a wreck and got fucked up really bad and could never workout again?  Would you kill yourself?

ummm   no

but that would kill me
probably push me back into at least weed



beener is right on. depression, real depression...not "oh my girlfriend left me and im lonely" depresiion..but real psychological depression...   thats not soemthing you want to wish on your worst enemy

[windsor88]

ummm   no

but that would kill me
probably push me back into at least weed

lol...cool.  i thought you were a weedhead now?  your probably all about the speed...ECA or similiar.

[candidizzle]

lol...cool.  i thought you were a weedhead now?  your probably all about the speed...ECA or similiar.

no

just life

i did use ephedrine pre workout for a while, but after squad made several comments about how guys think it makes them bigger, but it doesnt help at all...i tried going without it and i was immidietly abuout 20lbs stronger on most lifts..

[onlyme]

i dont know how killing yourself is selfish...

brutal misunderstanding of depression..

you guys must have never thouht of killing yourselves before?   

it has nothing to do with being selfish

We;ve seen pics of you when you were younger.  You must have grown up one depressed mutherfucker.  It must have been like hell getting picked on everyday cause you look like you do.  Did you try to kill yourself.  I can't believe you failed at that too.  Come on dude do something right.

[Beener]

We;ve seen pics of you when you were younger.  You must have grown up one depressed mutherfucker.  It must have been like hell getting picked on everyday cause you look like you do.  Did you try to kill yourself.  I can't believe you failed at that too.  Come on dude do something right.

uhh..did you READ what you just wrote? its as if you're talking to yourself, fatboy.

[windsor88]

We;ve seen pics of you when you were younger.  You must have grown up one depressed mutherfucker.  It must have been like hell getting picked on everyday cause you look like you do.  Did you try to kill yourself.  I can't believe you failed at that too.  Come on dude do something right.

I bet you were pretty depressed about that spider bite.  How it basically took everything away from you.  Did you wait a long time before getting that checked out cuz I heard on the radio people were calling in that were bit by a Brown Recluse and many of them only have a red blotch on the skin and no damage.  Most of the people were asleep when they got bit and woke up with tingling, burning, swelling and redness in a wide area.  I thought of you of course..

[Stark]

Man....... that's the most selfish thing any child could do.

Don't always judge people when they kill them self, I have been in moment in my life where I know for a fact that If
I wouldn't have been stronger (mentally) I would have easily decided to kill myself.
There are certain pains you think they never go away, and in today times were in general most people feel lonely and crave
attention and somebody they can lean on, if you loose the only partner you deem to be the one sharing your soul and this
partner fucks you over or leaves you killing yourself to stop the pain becomes easy.

[freespirit]

Fuck the parents.  It's his life and he can end it if he chooses.  They brought him into the world without his consent because they wanted a cute little baby to take care of.

How do you know. What do you think is the reason for getting children? Or should mankind just stop reproducing and wipe themselves of the earth? Is that what you're trying to say? You sound bitter there, chief.

[SGT BARNES]

what a bunch of toouchie-feelie twinks.

lets have a pity party for some anonymous internet post that might be true. Ive never seen such a bunch of sissies waiting to pour out tears and kleenex.

you should all go kill yourselves

[Stark]

what a bunch of toouchie-feelie twinks.

lets have a pity party for some anonymous internet post that might be true. Ive never seen such a bunch of sissies waiting to pour out tears and kleenex.

you should all go kill yourselves

You must be wearing a TapeOut Shirt am I right?

[freespirit]

You must be wearing a TapeOut Shirt am I right?

Sgt.Barnes is the best shadow boxer in the local gym. Not one to mess with. 

[Van_Bilderass]

[Below Me]

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[240 is Back]

we can't judge anyone who makes that decision to end it all.

I can tell you today I'd never do it.

If I was all alone in the world, 80 years old, and ravaged with painful cancer of the ass and every minute was torture and I was too broke for morphine?

You never know.  It's easy for us in our 20s/30s with hope and health to say we'd never do this or that.  Was the kid nuts for killing himself over a girl?  Of course.  But we can never know what was happening in his head.

[SGT BARNES]

You must be wearing a TapeOut Shirt am I right?

whats a tapeout shirt princess?

[The Squadfather]

My little brother's friend killed himself on Monday. 18 years old. On Wednesday his Uncle got killed in a motorcycle accident. So his dad lost his only son and brother within 2 days. I can't even begin to imagine how he feels. Anyone else have any gut wrenching stories like this?

damn man that sucks, sorry to hear about that.

[mass 04]

very sad.

[stormshadow]

How do you know. What do you think is the reason for getting children? Or should mankind just stop reproducing and wipe themselves of the earth? Is that what you're trying to say? You sound bitter there, chief.

No, I never said people should stop reproducing.  However, we need to be honest as to why people have children.  It is the autopilot for self worth, and stimulating the ego.  People act like there is so much meaning to life, well that is easy to identify when you have brought a life into this world that is totally dependent on you.

If I did have my own kid I would have the same manufactured "feeling of importance" that everyone else has.

What would someone like 240 be doing if he did not have his family?  Could he hack it through difficult times?  Knowing that he could disappear tomorrow and it really wouldn't be that big of a deal, except to parents and a few close friends.

The point I'm trying to make is if you take away the wife and kids there has to be a real meaning for your life and most people do NOT have it, that is why they push the button and have the family.

[stormshadow]

Don't always judge people when they kill them self, I have been in moment in my life where I know for a fact that If
I wouldn't have been stronger (mentally) I would have easily decided to kill myself.
There are certain pains you think they never go away, and in today times were in general most people feel lonely and crave
attention and somebody they can lean on, if you loose the only partner you deem to be the one sharing your soul and this
partner fucks you over or leaves you killing yourself to stop the pain becomes easy.

The feeling of importance is second to none, in keeping humans functioning and productive. 

I don't think people realize how little it takes to stop someone from killing themselves.  Just calling them up and saying "hey, I was thinking about you and wanted to hang out, lets go to lunch and see a movie."

Now think to yourself if that is really all it takes, and the person that killed themselves did not even have that much going for them.  Can you really blame them for ending it?

[Nordic Beast]

We;ve seen pics of you when you were younger.  You must have grown up one depressed mutherfucker.  It must have been like hell getting picked on everyday cause you look like you do.  Did you try to kill yourself.  I can't believe you failed at that too.  Come on dude do something right.

Leave the kid alone----at least he hasn't eaten himself into diabetes and another time zone

[Bast000]

Fuck the parents.  It's his life and he can end it if he chooses.  They brought him into the world without his consent because they wanted a cute little baby to take care of.

i agree.   if you ask for something that takes time and energy, then give it back then that is selfish.

if you didn't ask for it and don't want it then it isn't.