Thanks Laura, those are good thoughts! Funny what you said about the puzzle, I gave my 8yr ex a puzzle card once and wrote something like "Life is just a puzzle......." I can't remember the rest, something about pieces. I know he still has it. I even crayoned a pic on it.
I've had alot of people ask me why I "let" someone make me feel a certain way. That's just me, can't help it.
But I am learning, one day at a time!
thanks! Amy
this thread rocks! lolollz
Amy, if I "let" certain people make me feel like that ... to them it would never matter, to them I would just be a fool, to them I would still be nothing. But because I do not "let" people make me feel that certain way ... to them I do matter because they realize that I can go on, to them I am not a fool, but now a person that is unattable for them to ever get back, to them I now matter and yet ... now it's "too late" for them.

I actually have to thank them because now I have become a stronger person "because of them".