the whole thing reeks of gayness....personal info shouldnt be put out there only if you want it out there. I wouldnt do that to anyone.
it crosses the line and should not be done...ever.
that is almost the ultimate meltdown, it's like waving the white flag and saying "I can't hack it going at it with you on a board so I'll go after you in person".
I know one member of getbig who actually lost his f'n job cause of this kind of garbage