I don't believe, respect or appreciate such selectivism and ambivalence.
If you don't believe it, then it doesn't exist to you.
If it doesn't exist, how can you either respect or appreciate it?
Dude, you've started multiple threads attempting to justify our brand of exported democracy (modern day colonialism). it is what it is. Don't try to explain it away. It's been like this since mankind started - you try to exploit your neighbors for your own gain.
Thanks to the internet, you have a billion people worldwide who are, for the first time, AWARE of what we're doing for oil and strategic positioning. They're not happy, and many hate the US for our policy of elective wars (remember, taleban offered to deliver osama and we preferred to invade, and saddam surrendered at the last minute and we put a JDAM in the bunker he called from...)
It's how the world works, and no smart american would change it and lower our standard of living. However to start threads explaining it, or justifying it, is fruitless. We take their shit to be #1. It's that simple. Go eat your pancakes and smile and accept the reality of things.