If I ever encountered "bob chick" mistreating a lady I would do the gentlemanly thing and invite him to a sanctioned boxing match- in a ring, gloves of a legal weight, ref, etc. Then I would teach him a lesson in manners. I would shuck, jive, jab, hook, uppercut, right cross and generally beat the snot out of that bloated, juiced up, male chauvinist pig. Then after I deck him and he's on his hands and knees huffing and puffing he can apologize to Brenda.