Remember, he's still a kid. He'll get it. Give it time.
I sure hope he gets it eventually. He is talking like a retard lately, no offense Candi, but when he says shit like "I don't care what I do for a living as long as I can workout" it makes me wonder wtf is wrong with him. He is young, he needs to be getting an education first and foremost. If he wants to increase his self confidence, he should find a good career. You don't even have to be rich for the bitches to dig you, but you most certainly need to be able to take care of them, they don't give a fuck about muscles, it's not like they will live in a shitty rat infested apartment with a guy cuz he has a great build. I see people who get obsessed with weightlifting all the time, usually it's when they are a bit older and more established, midlife crisis or whatever so it's not a big deal really. These are the wrong years for young Candi to develop such an unhealthy obsession. I am obsessive compulsive, especially when it comes to drugs so I know what he is going through and how he thinks BBing is so important to him, but he would be so much better off hitting the gym 3 times a week and not worrying so much about it. Education(or get a good job, fireman, govt. job etc.) and pussy should be the only thing on his mind, he has the rest of his life to talk about ketosis and carbs with strangers all day.