Date Rape Warning Signs

[Butterbean]

10 warning signs

1. Being alone with someone you don't know well

2. Not knowing how you're going to get home

3. An instinctive 'bad feeling' about a situation

4. Drinking too much alcohol

5. Accepting drinks from people, particularly if the drink tastes or smells 'funny'

6. Guys who don't listen to you or show respect

7. A guy who insists on coming into your house when he drops you home

8. Unwanted touching by a guy

9. Guys who say 'You would if you loved me …'

10.  A friend who's not in control and is being taken advantage of



Spiked drink info

What are the physical symptoms?
The main sign that you've had a spiked drink is that you feel noticeably drunk more quickly that you would expect. You may also experience:

dizziness, feeling light-headed, queasiness
drowsiness, loss of consciousness, confusion
wild behaviour, lack of self- control
problems with coordination.
Many victims of drink spiking describe having blackouts and can't remember what happened to them the next day.

Spiking safety tips
Only accept drinks from people you know and trust.
Be suspicious if someone buys you a drink and it's not what you asked for
Keep your drink with you, and finish it before you go to the bathroom or onto the dance floor
If someone you don't know offers to buy you a drink, go to the bar with them
Never share or exchange drinks with anyone
Look out for your mates – if they seem too drunk or too out of it for what they've had, they may be in danger
If you decide to go home with someone, introduce them to your friends (or the bar staff or security) and make sure they know others have seen them
Help friends get home safely after a night out, or check they're OK before they leave with anyone
Always let people you have just met think you have a flatmate or live with other people
Don't be too quick to trust somebody you don't know – be careful about taking strangers at face value
If you feel dizzy or light-headed but haven't had much to drink, try to get to safe place with safe people (people you know and trust).

More info here:
www.aboutdaterape.nsw.go v.au/safety_tips/spotting_signs.html

[michael arvilla]

ok

[Camel Jockey]

Epic ruining my plans. 

[Lord Humungous]

Stella,

not to make light of a serious situation but....









































if you loved me you would......

[Geo]

10 warning signs


3. An instinctive 'bad feeling' about a situation

4. Drinking too much alcohol

it's been my experience that #4 generally remedies #3

[Faust]

Who deleted my post?

It was just a joke, like these other posts and they're not deleted.

[calmus]

Who deleted my post?

It was just a joke, like these other posts and they're not deleted.

what did you say?

Aren't most of the women who post here already married or strippers, anyway?

[CQ]

Who deleted my post?

It was just a joke, like these other posts and they're not deleted.

You are always cool so can't see you saying anything nasty that requires deletion.

That said, I should shut up really, as I did not even see post

what did you say?

Aren't most of the women who post here already married or strippers, anyway?

 

[Quickerblade]

10 warning signs

1. Being alone with someone you don't know well  (all my dates are with girls i dont know)

2. Not knowing how you're going to get home (Unless your dating a loser with no car i dont see this being a problem)
3. An instinctive 'bad feeling' about a situation (Thats just Nerves "butterflies")
4. Drinking too much alcohol ( hey nobody is making you drink excessively)
5. Accepting drinks from people, particularly if the drink tastes or smells 'funny' (all alcohol varies in taste, but ok i agree with this one, never accept drinks from strangers)
6. Guys who don't listen to you or show respect  ( this works both ways, both parties should show respect)
7. A guy who insists on coming into your house when he drops you home (Agreed)

8. Unwanted touching by a guy (can i atleast try to touch and wait for the slap?)
9. Guys who say 'You would if you loved me …' (loser)
10.  A friend who's not in control and is being taken advantage of (girls take advantage more then a man does)

Quickerblade - Getbig's dating expert

[Quickerblade]

Realistically girls should do a check up on the dude there dating, its easy now, u can find em on facebook etc, but my advice to girls that have started dating is to watch the alcohol, the date rape drugs symptoms that stella posted are more like being real drunk, a date rape drug will knock you out in around 5 mins depending on how much food you had...

P.S and no i have not used a date rape drug but know a lot of ambulance/paramedics personnel

[jaejonna]

10 warning signs

1. Being alone with someone you don't know well  (all my dates are with girls i dont know) You wouldnt be on a date if you knew them already

2. Not knowing how you're going to get home (Unless your dating a loser with no car i dont see this being a problem) Youve got to be a dumb person (male or female) if you go somewhere and forget how you can get home.
3. An instinctive 'bad feeling' about a situation (Thats just Nerves "butterflies") This is when a girl needs to man up and say...hey im just not feeling you.
4. Drinking too much alcohol ( hey nobody is making you drink excessively)
5. Accepting drinks from people, particularly if the drink tastes or smells 'funny' (all alcohol varies in taste, but ok i agree with this one, never accept drinks from strangers) In this day and age, if you take a drink from anyone its suspect.
6. Guys who don't listen to you or show respect  ( this works both ways, both parties should show respect) He is 'neggin' you...a method to get you to like them more.
7. A guy who insists on coming into your house when he drops you home (Agreed) dont cockblock

8. Unwanted touching by a guy (can i atleast try to touch and wait for the slap?) Saying 'no' is a good way to stop that
9. Guys who say 'You would if you loved me …' (loser) hahahah no guy says that shit .hahahha
10.  A friend who's not in control and is being taken advantage of (girls take advantage more then a man does)
thats called a whore
Quickerblade - Getbig's dating expert/ JJ's two cents

[Faust]

what did you say?

Nevermind.
I just posted one of Mars his pictures.