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[Hustle Man]

Crinkled up money in their pockets or unorganized monetary bills in their wallets is this a turn off for women?

My Fiancee's loud mouth friend brought this up during lunch!

I said it is very shallow to judge a man because o the way he stores his bills.

What say you people?

[CalvinH]

Crinkled up money in their pockets or unorganized monetary bills in their wallets is this a turn off for women?

My Fiancee's loud mouth friend brought this up during lunch!

I said it is very shallow to judge a man because o the way he stores his bills.

What say you people?

It's usually a sign that I had a fun night last night


^{CalvinH,officially liscensed womans board poster}

[drkaje]

Crinkled up money in their pockets or unorganized monetary bills in their wallets is this a turn off for women?

My Fiancee's loud mouth friend brought this up during lunch!

I said it is very shallow to judge a man because o the way he stores his bills.

What say you people?

It's a turn-off because those women believe the money should be in their pockets, LOL!

Your current level of giddiness suggests the 'baby' topic is still being skirted.

[Hustle Man]

It's a turn-off because those women believe the money should be in their pockets, LOL!

Your current level of giddiness suggests the 'baby' topic is still being skirted.

Doc, it's wierd how well you know me at times or is it this is how most men handle similiar issues?
I'm starting to believe you and many others have dealt with this dilema before?
To procreate or not to procreate this is the question!

[drkaje]

Doc, it's wierd how well you know me at times or is it this is how most men handle similiar issues?
I'm starting to believe you and many others have dealt with this dilema before?
To procreate or not to procreate this is the question!

What most guys in your position do is nothing. In hopes that the problem will eventually go away, it doesn't get discussed so they end up giving in under pressure or to make their wife happy. Or.... their wife ends up having an 'accident'. Sadly, the more advanced in age she is the worse pressure is to keep the baby because despite the increased risk of birth defects, health issues and the guy just plain not wanted to be indentured into fatherhood again it's her last chance to have a baby.

It's a hard world, HM. I know quite a few guys who get caught out there. One dude I know was afraid to get the vasectomy but trusted his longtime girlfriend (who "was on the pill"). Poor, stupid bastard could even see the light at the end of the tunnel.... child support from his previous marriage was going to be done in a few years, Alimony was going to be lessened, had a new house that was going to be more affordable once the last kid hit college, etc... now his stupid ass is changing diapers! And he is totally miserable.

Your position is probably worse. A 40yr old woman that wants a baby would probably rather lie about changing her mind than invest the time necessary in finding another suitable father. Either that or you'll be dealing with nagging all the time or severe depression everytime she sees a baby.

Even worse... it's not an issue that can be addressed with condoms. Using a condom would mean saying "I don't trust you", another uncomfortable conversation.

You're definately screwed. At this point it's more or less a question of if you're screwed with or without a new baby. Either way, you're screwed.

[JediKnight]

Crinkled up money in their pockets or unorganized monetary bills in their wallets is this a turn off for women?

My Fiancee's loud mouth friend brought this up during lunch!

I said it is very shallow to judge a man because o the way he stores his bills.

What say you people?

I think it shows them that if they keep the money unorganized then that must be how they are in person also. Unorganized, sloppy, un interested in there life. Alot of women like confident men, and being sort of laid back and uninterested in there presentation can be a turn off.

[Princess L]

I think it shows them that if they keep the money unorganized then that must be how they are in person also. Unorganized, sloppy, un interested in there life. Alot of women like confident men, and being sort of laid back and uninterested in there presentation can be a turn off.

I think you hit the nail on the head.

[Parker]

 A 40yr old woman that wants a baby would probably rather lie about changing her mind than invest the time necessary in finding another suitable father.

Halle Berry?

[Original Sin]

Crinkled up money in their pockets or unorganized monetary bills in their wallets is this a turn off for women?

My Fiancee's loud mouth friend brought this up during lunch!

I said it is very shallow to judge a man because o the way he stores his bills.

What say you people?

I think it doesn't matter.  It better then having no money to crinkle.

The real issue here is that you seriously meed to sit down with your fiance and have a long hard discussion about her
friend. 
It seems all she does is judge and criticize you.  Your relationship doesn't need a poison dart from an outside source.

[Blockhead]

I think it shows them that if they keep the money unorganized then that must be how they are in person also. Unorganized, sloppy, un interested in there life. Alot of women like confident men, and being sort of laid back and uninterested in there presentation can be a turn off.

Hey, as long as that guy treats some girls disrespectfully and makes sure he never shows her any respect she will be loyal to him no matter how wrinkled, rolled up, folded, straightened and even folded into a paper 'football' like we made in highschool.

 Now if this player had his money in a nice stainless steel money-clip and treated her like an equal? Like she's important? Some girls would lose mad respect for him. I hope this helps...

                                -Block

[w8m8]

I think it doesn't matter.  It better then having no money to crinkle.

The real issue here is that you seriously meed to sit down with your fiance and have a long hard discussion about her
friend. 
It seems all she does is judge and criticize you.  Your relationship doesn't need a poison dart from an outside source.

Sin has a good point here HM .. is this judgemental snooty friend and the snitch the same person ?

[freespirit]

Crinkled up money in their pockets or unorganized monetary bills in their wallets is this a turn off for women?

My Fiancee's loud mouth friend brought this up during lunch!

I said it is very shallow to judge a man because o the way he stores his bills.

What say you people?

Unacceptable. You sir, are to nice and friendly in this particular situation.   

[Hustle Man]

Sin has a good point here HM .. is this judgemental snooty friend and the snitch the same person ?

I know she is wow huh?

Yes same person and she is such an instigator. Her man is always on travel and she is miserable staying home, she needs something to do with herself.

[drkaje]

I know she is wow huh?

Yes same person and she is such an instigator. Her man is always on travel and she is miserable staying home, she needs something to do with herself.

LOL!! There's no business like Yo business.

Every woman has that friend or even worse a sister who can't stand to see them in a stable situation. My girl ended up cutting a few of them loose... One chick's advice was not to call me or come hang out after our first date so she wouldn't seem too available. My girlfriend told her "I am too available, that's the problem!!", LOL! That was a few years ago and they stopped hanging soon after the advice so I got spared some of the drama people like that inject in a relationship.

[drkaje]

Then they're both stupid when it comes to using something.

[24KT]

It's only an issue for women who know, ...for those who don't, ...it's no big deal.

How a man keeps his money is indicative of his attitude towards money. The same goes for women as well.
Those who keep their bills organized (heads facing in the same direction etc.,) are generally more organized when it comes to money. Those who are haphazard about shoving it in their wallets, pockets etc, are usually just as lackadaisical and/or dishevelled financially. It just comes down to attitudes. When a woman judges a man about how he keeps his money though, ...she's usually trying it, or him, on for size so-to-speak. Maybe she's sizing you up to see if you're good enough for her friend to tie the knot with? In any event, ...you have too many people in your love life. you need to snip that in the root before it grows into weeds from hell.

[windsor88]

Crinkled up money in their pockets or unorganized monetary bills in their wallets is this a turn off for women?

My Fiancee's loud mouth friend brought this up during lunch!

I said it is very shallow to judge a man because o the way he stores his bills.

What say you people?

I'd say the woman should be happy the guy has a few bucks regardless of the shape of the money.

[drkaje]

It's only an issue for women who know, ...for those who don't, ...it's no big deal.

How a man keeps his money is indicative of his attitude towards money. The same goes for women as well.
Those who keep their bills organized (heads facing in the same direction etc.,) are generally more organized when it comes to money. Those who are haphazard about shoving it in their wallets, pockets etc, are usually just as lackadaisical and/or dishevelled financially. It just comes down to attitudes. When a woman judges a man about how he keeps his money though, ...she's usually trying it, or him, on for size so-to-speak. Maybe she's sizing you up to see if you're good enough for her friend to tie the knot with? In any event, ...you have too many people in your love life. you need to snip that in the root before it grows into weeds from hell.

Well.. Judi,

I more or less subscribe to the Paretto principal that most people major in the minor.  Instead of trying to figure out which way the heads are facing that same person could be making more money.

I like mine orderly but don't allow myself to sweat the trivial. As long as I have enough cash for buy beer, protein powder and coffee... it's cool. The rest can stay in the bank.

[Hustle Man]

It's only an issue for women who know, ...for those who don't, ...it's no big deal.

How a man keeps his money is indicative of his attitude towards money. The same goes for women as well.
Those who keep their bills organized (heads facing in the same direction etc.,) are generally more organized when it comes to money. Those who are haphazard about shoving it in their wallets, pockets etc, are usually just as lackadaisical and/or dishevelled financially. It just comes down to attitudes. When a woman judges a man about how he keeps his money though, ...she's usually trying it, or him, on for size so-to-speak. Maybe she's sizing you up to see if you're good enough for her friend to tie the knot with? In any event, ...you have too many people in your love life. you need to snip that in the root before it grows into weeds from hell.

To echo Dr Jake, I organize as well but I do it by denomination only because its easier for me. My lady is like Windsor88 as long as I have money doesn't matter to her how I pull it from the wallet or bank lol.

[Butterbean]

She also talked about his shoes being turned over.

What does that mean HM?

[Hustle Man]

What does that mean HM?

You know, old worn out shoes?

[24KT]

Wow, she sounds like a very nitpickety, TOXIC person. Just want you want in your life! HA!