Here is my question:
1. WHO is at fault?
2. Is she a slut, or just a girl who wants to fulfill her man's sexual desires and fantasies?
3. Should HE be mad at her?
4. Should he look at her differently now?
5. Please discuss.
Thanks.
He is just an idiot. Plain and simple. If he didn't want her to do it, he shouldn't have told her to. Deep down, he was probably just testing her, and she failed in his mind. So, now what does he do? Does he go on living with a girl that could cheat on him? Is it acceptable for her to do it once? If only once, why not twice?!
One time I was in a band and the leader was nefarious as hell. He said that I made more than he did. Yeah, I GROSSED 9k that year, and he made less? Paying for hotels, gas (back when it was $1.98) and such? Don't think so...not even after all that was paid.
Anyway, I had a chance to look and see how much he really got paid, due to knowing his SS# from the person that did his taxes.
Now, the question becomes "What do you do with the information once you know it?" In my case, I did nothing. Because if I did, he'd smear my name about how I went behind his back, fire me and I'd lose a job. No win situation for me.
Your buddy is an idiot. If it really turned him on, he would have let her go through with it. But his first mistake about giving permission, was allowing her to do it while she was away and he wasn't there to "supervise." If it's such a turn on, he should have watched. Or she should have been smart and just told him someone else fucked her raw. If I didn't mention it prior....your friend is an idiot with an IQ of 53.