i dont think it works like that actually
i think females dont know how attractive or unattractive they actually are.
seeing you with any female, as long as they are not like truly hideous, will only be positive thing.
its like bodybuilders comparing other dudes physique to our own... i can see a 160 lb ecto 15 year old and think to myself " damn ! my genetics suck ass that kid is as muscular as am i ! ", then 2 minutes later see a 260 lb juiced up national level competitor and thin to myself " damn ! i am almost as big as he is, hes not that big really, i could compete on his level no problem ! "

i think thats how it is for girls to..