A-Rods wife gives him the Heave-Ho

[Moosejay]

It's all about the give and take.
Look at Bill and Hilary.

a 'marriage' of convenience

Look at the people you know who are in shitty relationships and stay there.

More than 50% of my patient base is divorced after 18 yrs of practice. Many do stay, however. Usually for the kids.

I'd stay if I had kids. Stats state that kids turn out better with two parents in the house, vietnam like atmosphere or not.

Each person that stays knows exactly what they are getting.
Sandra

[muscleforlife]

Your sexism is showing.  This sounds like a bitter little boy who got his heart broken by his first girlfriend.
If you are in your 40's and think this way of women, you are emotionally damaged(IMO)
Sandra

[Moosejay]

Your sexism is showing.  This sounds like a bitter little boy who got his heart broken by his first girlfriend.
If you are in your 40's and think this way of women, you are emotionally damaged(IMO)
Sandra

That is your interpretation.

Your posts smack of idealism. I operate in the real world.

Everyone has had their heart broken.

I am an old man, not a little b oy.

I respect everyone's opinion.

You, 'sandra', apparently, do not.

[jtsunami]

you sound pussy whipped ?

No, I have a more mature perspective on marriage, what it is.  Marriage is a commitment between a man and women for LIFE, better or for worse, and many more things.  A-Rod did not follow these vows, he is a adulterer, and has no rights as far as I am concerned to any money he made during the marriage.  She was the other half of him while he was playing baseball, behind every man is strong women is a saying, she helped him be able to play bball at the height of his game play.

[jtsunami]

His "rock" that runs off to live in another man's home as soon as her marriage is in trouble? Who bails out of her marriage just after having a baby two months earlier instead of trying to work things out? Ooookay. 

She didn't live in another man's home when their marriage was in trouble I don't think you read that link.  A-Rod left the marriage to live in adultry with Madonna, and when his wife had his second son, he showed up for 45 min then left back to New York, what a piece of trash, I do not feel sorry for him.

jt

[Moosejay]

No, I have a more mature perspective on marriage, what it is.  Marriage is a commitment between and man and women for LIFE, better or for worse, and many more things.  A-Rod did not follow these vows, he is a adulterer, and has no rights as far as I am concerned to any money he made during the marriage.  She was the other half of him while he was playing baseball, behind every man is strong women is a saying, she helped him be able to play bball at the height of his game play.

that's not always true

[jtsunami]

Of course, but in many cases it is true, George Bush, Donald Trump, etc etc, you can see the pattern.

jt

[Moosejay]

She didn't live in another man's home when their marriage was in trouble I don't think you read that link.  A-Rod left the marriage to live in adultry with Madonna, and when his wife had his second son, he showed up for 45 min then left back to New York, what a piece of trash, I do not feel sorry for him.

jt

as his extramarital foibles have been ongoing for at least a few years, as media coverage has portrayed, you don't think she may have been complicit i9n some way?

[Moosejay]

Of course, but in many cases it is true, George Bush, Donald Trump, etc etc, you can see the pattern.

jt

not to beat a dead horse, but in many cases it is not true, male or female

so there would not necessarily be a pattern

[Moosejay]

Straight marriage should be illegal. only the gays should be allowed to marry.

well, they do make it too easy to be divorced these days

[tu_holmes]

Of course, but in many cases it is true, George Bush, Donald Trump, etc etc, you can see the pattern.

jt

Haha... May be the most untrue post of the day.

Which one of Trumps wives was the strong one? Forget the fact his father was a wealthy real estate guy and Trump just followed in HIS footsteps.

What was Laura bush? Oh, that's right... A librarian.

Lots of strength in the women there.

[ManBearPig...]

every strong man with a strong woman behind him would be even stronger by himself.

reminds me of the clip in family guy where peter and quagmire did a "what if" they never got married.

they were sitting in front of a fireplace , reading the stock ticker and debating ways on how to spend their 500 million dollars because they never had a wife.

ha ha, women suck and generally suck throughout history.  they were only given "rights" because men got sick of their bitching.

[tu_holmes]

every strong man with a strong woman behind him would be even stronger by himself.

reminds me of the clip in family guy where peter and quagmire did a "what if" they never got married.

they were sitting in front of a fireplace , reading the stock ticker and debating ways on how to spend their 500 million dollars because they never had a wife.

ha ha, women suck and generally suck throughout history.  they were only given "rights" because men got sick of their bitching.

Give them rights and they STILL bitch.

Men run shit because women don't do anything but sit around and bitch... about themselves, other women... whatever.

They are never satisfied, but don't do shit about it.

Blah blah..

Man.

Wo-Man... As in Wo, Wo, Wo... Shut up.

[Moosejay]

Haha... May be the most untrue post of the day.

Which one of Trumps wives was the strong one? Forget the fact his father was a wealthy real estate guy and Trump just followed in HIS footsteps.

What was Laura bush? Oh, that's right... A librarian.

Lots of strength in the women there.

the story goes that dad trump gave donald and his bro 1 million $...donald became the donald, his bro drank himself to death

[tu_holmes]

the story goes that dad trump gave donald and his bro 1 million $...donald became the donald, his bro drank himself to death

I won't disagree that Donald got the job done... Still don't see where a woman had anything to do with it.

[muscleforlife]

That is your interpretation.

Your posts smack of idealism. I operate in the real world.

Everyone has had their heart broken.

I am an old man, not a little b oy.

I respect everyone's opinion.

You, 'sandra', apparently, do not.

You are incorrect, I do not operate in a world of idealism.  I didn't agree that either party was right or wrong in this divorce.
You continually call women whores and sluts.
If that is your real world,  Im sure your female relatives are proud of how you really feel about women in general.

And if you are an old man, you should know that not all women or men are the same.  Each should be judged as their own person, not as a whole.
Sandra

[tu_holmes]

You are incorrect, I do not operate in a world of idealism.  I didn't agree that either party was right or wrong in this divorce.
You continually call women whores and sluts.
If that is your real world,  Im sure your female relatives are proud of how you really feel about women in general.

And if you are an old man, you should know that not all women or men are the same.  Each should be judged as their own person, not as a whole.
Sandra

You know... I won't sit around and judge who's a whore or a slut or what have you... but I do have something to say about this.

When I was a kid, I was certainly not sexist... I never believed that there was a difference... My mom always seemed like a strong person and never really understood why some men were "sexist".

Older guys, would tell me, "Women are just "different", that's just the way it is."

I didn't get it.

Then I grew up... I got to see the world the way it really was... I started having to live my life and see my mom as an external person and not just the mom that I grew up with.

I saw her be catty, vindictive, hateful... and for what? Because she didn't like someone for something that wasn't even worth disliking them over?

Ask yourself when you do something... What are you trying to achieve? What is the outcome you're looking for when you do it?

Most men have something they are trying to accomplish... Women just seem to be doing things for the sake of doing them... Not trying to accomplish jack.

Are their exceptions? Of course... Generalizations never hold true 100 percent, but let's face it... Women really do shoot themselves in the foot far more often than men when it comes to social interactions, and that is when shit gets done.

[Moosejay]

You are incorrect, I do not operate in a world of idealism.  I didn't agree that either party was right or wrong in this divorce.
You continually call women whores and sluts.

I have never done this. Not once. Please do not address me any longer. You are delusional.

Angry woman

If that is your real world,  Im sure your female relatives are proud of how you really feel about women in general.

And if you are an old man, you should know that not all women or men are the same.  Each should be judged as their own person, not as a whole.
Sandra

[jtsunami]

Arnold has a strong women behind him as well.

[jtsunami]

I sense a strong hate for women in this thread or at least no respect for them?  Is this correct?

[Moosejay]

Arnold has a strong women behind him as well.

A strong jawline, anyway

[Moosejay]

Not on my side. I admit that I CANNOT live without them! But I'll swear on my life, Bible, someones grave, or whatever? God forbit I am dumb enough to get married. Solid pre-nup is priority number 1! Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?! And if any man believes that there is just one special women out there for you? Just come to NYC and walk down 5th ave on a nice day!!!! Fellas lets get our heads out of our asses already. Your a dunce if a Women cleans you out in a divorce!

I am married to my profession and business. I'd likely be divorced due to lack of time. Why go that way? You can have a fulfilling life without matrimony.

I can't tell you how many hundreds, if not over a thousand, patients, male and female, when getting to know them, tell me they should have not gotten married, they wish they were me, etc, etc,...yes...your NYC example rings true.

Its a big world.

Do what is best for you.

[Benny B]

And if any man believes that there is just one special women out there for you? Just come to NYC and walk down 5th ave on a nice day!!!!

No doubt. The 10's are everywhere on the streets of Manhattan on a nice summer day. It was always a pleasure to walk the streets in my days of taking three hour lunches when working in midtown. 

[TechnoViking]

I am married to my profession and business. I'd likely be divorced due to lack of time. Why go that way? You can have a fulfilling life without matrimony.

I can't tell you how many hundreds, if not over a thousand, patients, male and female, when getting to know them, tell me they should have not gotten married, they wish they were me, etc, etc,...yes...your NYC example rings true.

Its a big world.

Do what is best for you.

very good post...

[Moosejay]

No doubt. The 10's are everywhere on the streets of Manhattan on a nice summer day. It was always a pleasure to walk the streets in my days of taking three hour lunches when working in midtown. 

damn..why'dja give up that job?