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Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« on: July 15, 2008, 05:52:05 PM »
An acquaintance/friend is moving and I kinda offered to help her move because she mentioned that nobody with a truck (guys) would help her move stuff.  Also keep in mind we talked about going out for dinner or something, prior to this.  She lives about 30 minutes away, so it's not exactly on my way but I said if she can't find anyone else that I would help.  So is this a way to score points or look like a sucker?
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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #1 on: July 15, 2008, 06:03:06 PM »
Waddaya think?  ;D  ;D

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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #2 on: July 15, 2008, 06:11:52 PM »
Waddaya think?  ;D  ;D
My first thought was sucker...lol, but I was giving myself the benefit of the doubt.    ;D
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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #3 on: July 15, 2008, 06:12:51 PM »
Go with your gut instinct... if you think you're being a sucka... you are.

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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #4 on: July 15, 2008, 06:21:48 PM »
Go with your gut instinct... if you think you're being a sucka... you are.
I just err on the side of caution with women.
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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #5 on: July 15, 2008, 06:22:53 PM »
I just err on the side of caution with women.

As you should... Nothing good ever comes from being "nice".

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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #6 on: July 15, 2008, 07:50:22 PM »
An acquaintance/friend is moving and I kinda offered to help her move because she mentioned that nobody with a truck (guys) would help her move stuff.  Also keep in mind we talked about going out for dinner or something, prior to this.  She lives about 30 minutes away, so it's not exactly on my way but I said if she can't find anyone else that I would help.  So is this a way to score points or look like a sucker?

You will be looked at as a decent person, not a sucker.
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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #7 on: July 15, 2008, 07:59:30 PM »
You will be looked at as a decent person, not a sucker.
true but the decent guy rarely ever gets the ass, trust me i am the proverbial nice guy...its the dude that said nah i got something to do that day that will be tapping that ass the first night in her new place if she is the normal girl...not saying not to if she is a friend, just my 2 cents.

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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #8 on: July 15, 2008, 08:01:19 PM »
true but the decent guy rarely ever gets the ass, trust me i am the proverbial nice guy...its the dude that said nah i got something to do that day that will be tapping that ass the first night in her new place if she is the normal girl...not saying not to if she is a friend, just my 2 cents.

I see your point, but "good" or "bad", the guy with the confidence to close the deal is going to tap that ass.
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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #9 on: July 15, 2008, 08:01:37 PM »
An acquaintance/friend is moving and I kinda offered to help her move because she mentioned that nobody with a truck (guys) would help her move stuff.  Also keep in mind we talked about going out for dinner or something, prior to this.  She lives about 30 minutes away, so it's not exactly on my way but I said if she can't find anyone else that I would help.  So is this a way to score points or look like a sucker?

You have gave me good advices, so heres my advice for you friend

Being a gentleman wont make you look like a sucker

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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #10 on: July 15, 2008, 08:06:08 PM »
I see your point, but "good" or "bad", the guy with the confidence to close the deal is going to tap that ass.
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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #11 on: July 15, 2008, 08:50:24 PM »
Get your date right after the move, clean up and go out and seal the deal while she's still thankful for your help. ;)
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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #12 on: July 15, 2008, 08:52:33 PM »
Get your date right after the move, clean up and go out and seal the deal while she's still thankful for your help. ;)
I did plan to bring a change of clothes...lol.
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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #13 on: July 15, 2008, 08:55:15 PM »
I did plan to bring a change of clothes...lol.
Wouldn't hurt to borrow her shower, would it? ;)
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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #14 on: July 15, 2008, 11:00:33 PM »
You will be looked at as a decent person, not a sucker.

Good answer!  ;D
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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #15 on: July 16, 2008, 01:23:18 AM »
You are what you think you are.

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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #16 on: July 16, 2008, 02:56:21 AM »
It's a way to help her out of a difficult situation.

From a woman's perspective... I say you could be looked upon as a good person or not.

That's going to depend on YOU and how you conduct yourself on the day of the move.

One caveat tho, you mentioned, you'd previously asked her out. Did she say yes or no?

If you're going to help her move, help her move. I know you'll probably be looking to score some points, but don't press the issue. if you make her feel obligated to you for helping her move, she may secretly start to resent you, ...and far worse than seeing you as a sucker, ...she may see you as slime who takes advantage of a damsel in distress. Not all women are as blunt and straightforward with their feelings as I am. Infact, I'd say the majority of women keep hostilities and/or resentments to themselves and never express them, ...but man-oh-man do they ever let it simmer inside. They'll smile to your face, all sweet & charm, ...but inside they're seething. You don't ever want to get into that area. Don't press it.

Now Jake will naturally chime in and advise you to do the exact opposite of whatever I suggest.  ;D
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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #17 on: July 16, 2008, 04:51:40 AM »
It makes you a good person as well as a good friend.  A lot of people tend to look the other way when someone is moving and don't offer help.  Just keep in mind what goes around...comes around.  ;) 

...just make sure she doesn't sit on her butt while you do all the work, lol. 
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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #18 on: July 16, 2008, 05:21:10 AM »
Good answer!  ;D
Agreed. Nothing wrong with helping people in a difficult situation. Just don't expect anything and you won't be disappointed.

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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #19 on: July 16, 2008, 05:23:31 AM »
blah blah blah, PM me if you want to get in her pants.

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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #20 on: July 16, 2008, 06:35:01 AM »
It's a way to help her out of a difficult situation.

From a woman's perspective... I say you could be looked upon as a good person or not.

That's going to depend on YOU and how you conduct yourself on the day of the move.

One caveat tho, you mentioned, you'd previously asked her out. Did she say yes or no?

If you're going to help her move, help her move. I know you'll probably be looking to score some points, but don't press the issue. if you make her feel obligated to you for helping her move, she may secretly start to resent you, ...and far worse than seeing you as a sucker, ...she may see you as slime who takes advantage of a damsel in distress. Not all women are as blunt and straightforward with their feelings as I am. Infact, I'd say the majority of women keep hostilities and/or resentments to themselves and never express them, ...but man-oh-man do they ever let it simmer inside. They'll smile to your face, all sweet & charm, ...but inside they're seething. You don't ever want to get into that area. Don't press it.

Now Jake will naturally chime in and advise you to do the exact opposite of whatever I suggest.  ;D
Yeah, the date's already planned.  I don't mind helping because I know her and it sounds like most guys that she know pretty much told her "no" because they wouldn't get any from her after, or at least that would be my guess. 
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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #21 on: July 16, 2008, 06:38:49 AM »
You will be looked at as a decent person, not a sucker.
Agree...

If she looks at you as a sucker..that wouldn't be very decent of her
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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #22 on: July 16, 2008, 06:45:52 AM »
yes

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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #23 on: July 16, 2008, 06:54:25 AM »
your a heartbreak waiting to happen.

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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #24 on: July 16, 2008, 08:27:46 AM »
your a heartbreak waiting to happen.
Well, this is why I come here for advice.  I know that a few women and a lot of guys will throw out their .02.   8)
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