Older women getting short haircuts

[nzmusclemonster]

I have often wondered why it is, when women hit 35 they start getting short haircuts.
It does nothing for their looks.... it makes them look older imo. And like a lesbian 

All women seem to do it though, why is that?

[Playboy]

I have often wondered why it is, when women hit 35 they start getting short haircuts.
It does nothing for their looks.... it makes them look older imo. And like a lesbian 

All women seem to do it though, why is that?

I have often wondered that myself. I have never liked short hair on women period. Makes them look like boys IMO. Long hair is the way to go.

[Butterbean]

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[michael arvilla]

A) their married they figure they no longer have to attract men
B) "i have kids i don't have time to be fussing with my hair"!     (see A above)
C) "it's so much easier i just get up and go"!    ( again see A above)

finally the second their husband cheats on them or they get divorced they start "growing it out"


it's like the women  (and men) who "let themselves go" during marriage (then wanna lose weight/have long hair once they break up)

Moral: keep yourselves attractive to your mate ladies!................it matters to us!
even tho we love you/we don't want a fat, short haired - KD Lange look alike~!!!

[Butterbean]

it's like the women  (and men) who "let themselves go" during marriage (then wanna lose weight/have long hair once they break up)

I think sometimes the weight loss is somewhat involuntary because the person feels so devastated.  I have a girlfriend that lost 35 pounds when her boyfriend broke up w/her.  She just couldn't eat much.  The eventually got married and she gain the weight back.

Moral: keep yourselves attractive to your mate ladies!................it matters to us!
even tho we love you/we don't want a fat, short haired - KD Lange look alike~!!!

According to a book I read one of the 5 top needs that a man has is an attractive spouse.  Although some could be offended by the book from what I remember it's really pretty good.

[michael arvilla]

According to a book I read one of the 5 top needs that a man has is an attractive spouse.  Although some could be offended by the book from what I remember it's really pretty good.

i believe it seriously............... man is a very "visual creature"!

[BayGBM]

According to a book I read one of the 5 top needs that a man has is an attractive spouse.  Although some could be offended by the book from what I remember it's really pretty good.

I don’t buy that. For one thing what one man finds attractive another may find repulsive.  Sure, everyone wants a spouse that he finds attractive but the definition of “attractive” can vary greatly.  Having a cover girl (or guy) may be very important to you but it is not important to everyone.  I have been with some of the most stereotypically attractive guys in the world, but none of them are what I would consider relationship material.

Some people are motivated and drawn to things that are less superficial such as intellect or shared values.  Others are attracted to practical things like income.

One’s taste can also change dramatically over time.  We have all acquired a taste for foods we once hated.  It is possible to experience this with people as well.  What you find attractive today may not be what you find attractive tomorrow.  So, no, not ever man needs an "attractive" spouse.


As for women cutting their hair as they get older: when they are very young girls long hair is one of the things that define a girl as female.  This is especially true in the West.  As a woman gets older and older she has other things to define her femininity: body, make up, clothes, etc.  No more "need" for long hair.  See, A, B, and C above...

[CQ]

I've been told I need to cut my hair [its waist length] as I was "too old" to have long hair at 30 - by a couple of western women [not rudely, in convo]. Strange thing to me, as here we basically all grow, grow, grow our hair - short hair is very rare here. I am not a fan of short hair 75% of the time frankly, but some females really work it - like Halle, Jada Pinkett, Natalie Benson etc.

[michael arvilla]

 

[Butterbean]

For one thing what one man finds attractive another may find repulsive.  Sure, everyone wants a spouse that he finds attractive but the definition of “attractive” can vary greatly.  Having a cover girl (or guy) may be very important to you but it is not important to everyone.  I have been with some of the most stereotypically attractive guys in the world, but none of them are what I would consider relationship material.

Some people are motivated and drawn to things that are less superficial such as intellect or shared values.  Others are attracted to practical things like income.

One’s taste can also change dramatically over time.  We have all acquired a taste for foods we once hated.  It is possible to experience this with people as well.  What you find attractive today may not be what you find attractive tomorrow.  So, no, not ever man needs an "attractive" spouse.

I agree w/all of this ....the book is saying men (most men I guess) want a spouse that is attractive ....to them.

[Deicide]

I don’t buy that. For one thing what one man finds attractive another may find repulsive.  Sure, everyone wants a spouse that he finds attractive but the definition of “attractive” can vary greatly.  Having a cover girl (or guy) may be very important to you but it is not important to everyone.  I have been with some of the most stereotypically attractive guys in the world, but none of them are what I would consider relationship material.

Some people are motivated and drawn to things that are less superficial such as intellect or shared values.  Others are attracted to practical things like income.

One’s taste can also change dramatically over time.  We have all acquired a taste for foods we once hated.  It is possible to experience this with people as well.  What you find attractive today may not be what you find attractive tomorrow.  So, no, not ever man needs an "attractive" spouse.


As for women cutting their hair as they get older: when they are very young girls long hair is one of the things that define a girl as female.  This is especially true in the West.  As a woman gets older and older she has other things to define her femininity: body, make up, clothes, etc.  No more "need" for long hair.  See, A, B, and C above...

And this is the element of relationships (more so than in other things in life) that appears to render them simply sisyphean labour in the truest sense of the word. One day things are fine and the next day it's over, quite literally within the span of a day. One has to question the investment of time in such things given the fact that they rarely bear fruit.

On the other hand, based on personal observation homosexual relationships seem to be more stable, perhaps because gay men and women have much more to lose given the more limited demographic. By analogy the heterosexual person can visit an uncountable number of boutiques and shops, the gay person may be more limited to the one or two.

[Hereford]

One day things are fine and the next day it's over, quite literally within the span of a day. One has to question the investment of time in such things given the fact that they rarely bear fruit.
 

Agreed. I cannot count the number of female friends that say some guy is the next coming one week, then two weeks later think he's the biggest piece of shit in the universe. Funny thing is.... nothing with the guy changed, except that in most circumstances the woman found another 'favor of the week' that she fancies.

[dantelis]

A) their married they figure they no longer have to attract men
B) "i have kids i don't have time to be fussing with my hair"!     (see A above)
C) "it's so much easier i just get up and go"!    ( again see A above)

finally the second their husband cheats on them or they get divorced they start "growing it out"


it's like the women  (and men) who "let themselves go" during marriage (then wanna lose weight/have long hair once they break up)

Moral: keep yourselves attractive to your mate ladies!................it matters to us!
even tho we love you/we don't want a fat, short haired - KD Lange look alike~!!!

You are spot on with your 3 points Mike.  It is the same reason men stop shaving their back hair after they get married.   

[El_Pajero]

this only happens in western society where the women are big boned and drink beer.

[Hereford]

You are spot on with your 3 points Mike.  It is the same reason men stop shaving their back hair after they get married.   

Most of the time when men 'let themselves go' they just drop out of the gym and get blubbery fat. This frequently corresponds with many of them withdrawing from social activities and athletic endeavors.

[El_Pajero]

[michael arvilla]

 

[spotter]

I have often wondered why it is, when women hit 35 they start getting short haircuts.
It does nothing for their looks.... it makes them look older imo. And like a lesbian 

All women seem to do it though, why is that?

It depends on the woman....Some ladies want to change their style, and some just feel that a shorter haircut looks better when they are older.  I don't think there is a specific rule.  I have seen some ladies over 35 with long hair that looked great, others like hell.... Its the same with guys.  P.S. some lesbians have long hair.....

[~weed~]

I have had long hair my whole life except for a brief stint in grade school with an unfortunate "bowl" cut.       Since then it has never been shorter than 1/2 way down my back and is usually close to waist length.   I personally could never have a short haircut, it wouldn't suit me at all.        I have been stopped before and had my hair commented on and how nice it was see a woman with longer hair.   

[Butterbean]

stint in grade school with an unfortunate "bowl" cut.      

pics

[~weed~]

pics

  no way!!!  What made it worse was I then permed the bowl further proving I should never have short hair!  

[Hereford]

Everyone did this at some point in grade school.

[Geo]

I have had long hair my whole life except for a brief stint in grade school with an unfortunate "bowl" cut.       Since then it has never been shorter than 1/2 way down my back and is usually close to waist length.   I personally could never have a short haircut, it wouldn't suit me at all.        I have been stopped before and had my hair commented on and how nice it was see a woman with longer hair.   

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[Butterbean]

I then permed the bowl

hahahaa   Please email pics!

[Lord Humungous]

I have had long hair my whole life except for a brief stint in grade school with an unfortunate "bowl" cut.       Since then it has never been shorter than 1/2 way down my back and is usually close to waist length.   I personally could never have a short haircut, it wouldn't suit me at all.        I have been stopped before and had my hair commented on and how nice it was see a woman with longer hair.   

I would love to pull your hair weedy










and slap your ass