let's put it this way, when you get as big as a pro bodybuilder, along with the many, many benefits, you'll also find:
1. It puts strain on your body
2. It scares most women, children, men
3. Your clothing choices are VASTLY reduced
4. You're forever compared to people your size
for those who dream to be a pro bodybuilder (or at least that size) weigh the good with the bad
in other words, there's a woman out there for you no matter your size, but it may not be every woman