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I've trained at Golds, Venice for 19 years.

Many rumors about how/when Chris Duffy went gay/bi/for pay...whatever you wanna call it.

Chris was married for many years to his female college sweetheart. They competed together for a few years in the same shows. Then they moved out to LA. He won the L.A. Championships,made a name for himself and then burned out on the BB scene.

Chris came off all the gear and started to personal train many clients. Some celebrity clients too,such as Steven Seagal. During this time, Chris ended up having an affair with his wifes best friend, who was a female competitive bodybuilder too. This went on for some time . Chris's wife found out, and was willing to give him another chance. Chris decided to stay with his new fling instead and got a divorce.
           
Now this is where the crazy new life of Chris begins. His new gal was well known in Golds, Venice as a huge anything goes,horny sex freak. She introduced Chris to the world of mushrooms, X, and other drugs. Prior to that Chris would barely touch a beer. Chris was head over heels for her. Well she was into swinging and orgies too. She also had a huge desire for watching straight men suck cock. She pretty much wanted Chris to experiment with men sexually in front of her and she wanted to swap with them too.

being chris was the most pussy whiped guy I ever met, he did whatever pleased her. And this led to Chris becoming more and more comfortable with crazy bisexual acts while being high on X and other drugs.

Fast forward a few years. They both leave LA and move to Florida(early 90's). And chris decides to make a comback to turn pro. He gears up again and pulls off his pro card. He is still with his lady at this point and they both decide to move back to LA because of Chris's new popularity as Nationals Champ.

They move to Redondo Beach,Ca. Chris trains for some pro shows and doesnt peak well. By this point Chris is dabbling in some crazy shit with his girl. More drugs , more orgies, etc... he trains for fun and too just walk around looking big.

But he is not making much cash from the sport.
         
So the natural thing for the new and crazy Chris to do is to start hustling himself for cash.

Chris is now clearly comfortable with have sex with dudes. he starts to become an in demand gay escort and is still with his girl. She clearly supports this and is a lazy person herself who lives off his cash.

Well ,through some of his gay clientel ,Chris is told that he could make a lot of cash as a gay porn star as he is already a cult figure in the gay underworld. Influential Chris goes for broke and decides to make 2-3 gay pornos under the name Bull Stanton.

He moves to San Francisco during this time with his girl and the guy that he starred in the pornos with. He does this because his girl has fallen in love with the idea of living a big happy bisexual affair between Chris , his male onscreen lover and her.

They stay in San francisco ,where Chris starts performing solo sex shows on stage with a huge dildo for the pleasure of his new high paying porno fans. Chris also gets into heavy crystal meth use and starts to go really crazy.

he stopps training as much.
Stops juicing as much and everything just goes insane.

he has a breakdown and leaves both his gay friend and his girl.

Chris stays on crystal and ends up living on peoples couches for months on end. Barely training and engaging in very unsafe gay street  prostituion to pay for his crystal habit.

After many months of this, Chris makes his way back to family in Florida. he detoxes from crystal meth and decides to start training again to get back to what he always loved, Bodybuilding.

But the damage is done mentally. Chris no longer knows how to function in regular society with a job and decideds to take the bad decision to start male escorting again for a living. He stays off the crystal meth, tries a Masters comeback.

hustles as a male escort while dating women in Tampa that are pretty open minded as to what he does for cash. Nothing sticks relationship wise and so the story of chris Duffy continues.

It is a very sad story . Chris was always a nice guy. One of the nicest guys in Golds.

very sad.

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I've trained at Golds, Venice for 19 years. Many rumors about how/when Chris Duffy went gay/bi/for pay...whatever you wanna call it. Chris was married for many years to his female college sweetheart. They competed together for a few years in the same shows. Then they moved out to LA. He won the L.A. Championships,made a name for himself and then burned out on the BB scene. Chris came off all the gear and started to personal train many clients. Some celebrity clients too,such as Steven Seagal. During this time, Chris ended up having an affair with his wifes best friend, who was a female competitive bodybuilder too. This went on for some time . Chris's wife found out, and was willing to give him another chance. Chris decided to stay with his new fling instead and got a divorce.
           Now this is where the crazy new life of Chris begins. His new gal was well known in Golds, Venice as a huge anything goes,horny sex freak. She introduced Chris to the world of mushrooms, X, and other drugs. Prior to that Chris would barely touch a beer. Chris was head over heels for her. Well she was into swinging and orgies too. She also had a huge desire for watching straight men suck cock. She pretty much wanted Chris to experiment with men sexually in front of her and she wanted to swap with them too. being chris was the most pussy whiped guy I ever met, he did whatever pleased her. And this led to Chris becoming more and more comfortable with crazy bisexual acts while being high on X and other drugs.
       Fast forward a few years. They both leave LA and move to Florida(early 90's). And chris decides to make a comback to turn pro. He gears up again and pulls off his pro card. He is still with his lady at this point and they both decide to move back to LA because of Chris's new popularity as Nationals Champ. They move to Redondo Beach,Ca. Chris trains for some pro shows and doesnt peak well. By this point Chris is dabbling in some crazy shit with his girl. More drugs , more orgies, etc... he trains for fun and too just walk around looking big. But he is not making much cash from the sport.
          So the natural thing for the new and crazy Chris to do is to start hustling himself for cash. Chris is now clearly comfortable with have sex with dudes. he starts to become an in demand gay escort and is still with his girl. She clearly supports this and is a lazy person herself who lives off his cash. Well ,through some of his gay clientel ,Chris is told that he could make a lot of cash as a gay porn star as he is already a cult figure in the gay underworld. Influential Chris goes for broke and decides to make 2-3 gay pornos under the name Bull Stanton. He moves to San Francisco during this time with his girl and the guy that he starred in the pornos with. He does this because his girl has fallen in love with the idea of living a big happy bisexual affair between Chris , his male onscreen lover and her. They stay in San francisco ,where Chris starts performing solo sex shows on stage with a huge dildo for the pleasure of his new high paying porno fans. Chris also gets into heavy crystal meth use and starts to go really crazy. he stopps training as much. Stops juicing as much and everything just goes insane. he has a breakdown and leaves both his gay friend and his girl. Chris stays on crystal and ends up living on peoples couches for months on end. Barely training and engaging in very unsafe gay street  prostituion to pay for his crystal habit. After many months of this, Chris makes his way back to family in Florida. he detoxes from crystal meth and decides to start training again to get back to what he always loved, Bodybuilding. But the damage is done mentally. Chris no longer knows how to function in regular society with a job and decideds to take the bad decision to start male escorting again for a living. He stays off the crystal meth, tries a Masters comeback. hustles as a male escort while dating women in Tampa that are pretty open minded as to what he does for cash. Nothing sticks relationship wise and so the story of chris Duffy continues. It is a very sad story . Chris was always a nice guy. One of the nicest guys in Golds. very sad.
That is interesting and I feel kind of sorry for the guy because when I used to speak to him at Gold's in Florida in the 90's he seemed like a really cool, nice guy. Bodybuilding does seem to have it's share of sordid, sad stories like this. Hope he gets his life together and finds a decent relationship.

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I've trained at Golds, Venice for 19 years. Many rumors about how/when Chris Duffy went gay/bi/for pay...whatever you wanna call it. Chris was married for many years to his female college sweetheart. They competed together for a few years in the same shows. Then they moved out to LA. He won the L.A. Championships,made a name for himself and then burned out on the BB scene. Chris came off all the gear and started to personal train many clients. Some celebrity clients too,such as Steven Seagal. During this time, Chris ended up having an affair with his wifes best friend, who was a female competitive bodybuilder too. This went on for some time . Chris's wife found out, and was willing to give him another chance. Chris decided to stay with his new fling instead and got a divorce.
           Now this is where the crazy new life of Chris begins. His new gal was well known in Golds, Venice as a huge anything goes,horny sex freak. She introduced Chris to the world of mushrooms, X, and other drugs. Prior to that Chris would barely touch a beer. Chris was head over heels for her. Well she was into swinging and orgies too. She also had a huge desire for watching straight men suck cock. She pretty much wanted Chris to experiment with men sexually in front of her and she wanted to swap with them too. being chris was the most pussy whiped guy I ever met, he did whatever pleased her. And this led to Chris becoming more and more comfortable with crazy bisexual acts while being high on X and other drugs.
       Fast forward a few years. They both leave LA and move to Florida(early 90's). And chris decides to make a comback to turn pro. He gears up again and pulls off his pro card. He is still with his lady at this point and they both decide to move back to LA because of Chris's new popularity as Nationals Champ. They move to Redondo Beach,Ca. Chris trains for some pro shows and doesnt peak well. By this point Chris is dabbling in some crazy shit with his girl. More drugs , more orgies, etc... he trains for fun and too just walk around looking big. But he is not making much cash from the sport.
          So the natural thing for the new and crazy Chris to do is to start hustling himself for cash. Chris is now clearly comfortable with have sex with dudes. he starts to become an in demand gay escort and is still with his girl. She clearly supports this and is a lazy person herself who lives off his cash. Well ,through some of his gay clientel ,Chris is told that he could make a lot of cash as a gay porn star as he is already a cult figure in the gay underworld. Influential Chris goes for broke and decides to make 2-3 gay pornos under the name Bull Stanton. He moves to San Francisco during this time with his girl and the guy that he starred in the pornos with. He does this because his girl has fallen in love with the idea of living a big happy bisexual affair between Chris , his male onscreen lover and her. They stay in San francisco ,where Chris starts performing solo sex shows on stage with a huge dildo for the pleasure of his new high paying porno fans. Chris also gets into heavy crystal meth use and starts to go really crazy. he stopps training as much. Stops juicing as much and everything just goes insane. he has a breakdown and leaves both his gay friend and his girl. Chris stays on crystal and ends up living on peoples couches for months on end. Barely training and engaging in very unsafe gay street  prostituion to pay for his crystal habit. After many months of this, Chris makes his way back to family in Florida. he detoxes from crystal meth and decides to start training again to get back to what he always loved, Bodybuilding. But the damage is done mentally. Chris no longer knows how to function in regular society with a job and decideds to take the bad decision to start male escorting again for a living. He stays off the crystal meth, tries a Masters comeback. hustles as a male escort while dating women in Tampa that are pretty open minded as to what he does for cash. Nothing sticks relationship wise and so the story of chris Duffy continues. It is a very sad story . Chris was always a nice guy. One of the nicest guys in Golds. very sad.


Ive been married for 19 years ,and would do anything for my wife,but I think I might draw the line on going down on a man[unless he was REALLY good looking.lol].No,seriously,I think if a girl asks you to do this,and you agree,its something that you probably had an interest in to begin with.Also,you keep saying "he became more comfortable with it".It seems he just really dug it.Nothing wrong with it,if thats your thing,but doing solo sex acts with a dildo in front of an audiance,would seem to take more then just a level of comfort.It would seem like you REALLY had to like doing that.

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If true, this is better than anything someone could make up. Chris should try selling his story for a book or movie deal.

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how about Chris was always gay, but just didn't come to grips with it until he was almost 40

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There you go again....you trying to hurt my feelings?????

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One more comment like that and I will be forced to out you as Moose's gay lover  ;D

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how about Chris was always gay, but just didn't come to grips with it until he was almost 40

Or how about he was never gay, got into drugs, and then flipped out on gay sex beause of the drugs and the grip it had on him????

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Beef why dont you just name Bovino....everyone knows its her anyway

AKA Jody B...... whose name is tattooed on Duffy's left shoulder....

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Or how about he was never gay, got into drugs, and then flipped out on gay sex because of the drugs and the grip it had on him????

that would explain the gay for pay, but he had a few high profile lovers since then, and has been quite visible at various gay events.

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how about Chris was always gay, but just didn't come to grips with it until he was almost 40

LOL!  :D

That makes much more sense than the "story".

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Re: The Chris Duffy Story...or how he fell from grace...great and interesting re
« Reply #14 on: September 05, 2008, 11:53:35 AM »
that would explain the gay for pay, but he had a few high profile lovers since then, and has been quite visible at various gay events.
Did you ever 'do' him Tim ?
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Re: The Chris Duffy Story...or how he fell from grace...great and interesting re
« Reply #15 on: September 05, 2008, 11:57:48 AM »
Did you ever 'do' him Tim ?

definitely not my type

bay's the one into older white muscle


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Re: The Chris Duffy Story...or how he fell from grace...great and interesting re
« Reply #16 on: September 05, 2008, 12:01:51 PM »
definitely not my type

bay's the one into older white muscle


hahah i was just kiddin lol
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this duffy character sounds like a real loser  :-\
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Re: The Chris Duffy Story...or how he fell from grace...great and interesting re
« Reply #18 on: September 05, 2008, 12:25:20 PM »
this isn't a fall from grace, this is a rize to stardome

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Re: The Chris Duffy Story...or how he fell from grace...great and interesting re
« Reply #19 on: September 05, 2008, 12:29:17 PM »
this isn't a fall from grace, this is a rize to stardome
Yea, maybe in your eyes, you sausage-loving twink. :-X

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how about Chris was always gay, but just didn't come to grips with it until he was almost 40

exactly, heteros like to believe that someone can be talked into being gay , or turn gay after doing drugs or hanging out with bad people, and that is completely false. 

It reinforces their misguided belief that gay people are bad, and not acutally gay and that they can turn back straight if they want... ::)

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Re: The Chris Duffy Story...or how he fell from grace...great and interesting re
« Reply #21 on: September 05, 2008, 01:06:35 PM »
Yea, maybe in your eyes, you sausage-loving twink. :-X
wtf Jeffro

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exactly, heteros like to believe that someone can be talked into being gay , or turn gay after doing drugs or hanging out with bad people, and that is completely false. 

It reinforces their misguided belief that gay people are bad, and not acutally gay and that they can turn back straight if they want... ::)

The fact is no one knows the mechanism for the gayness cause-but most reputable scientists say some are born and some are learned.


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The fact is no one knows the mechanism for the gayness cause-but most reputable scientists say some are born and some are learned.

sexual orientation is highly influenced by genetics and biology (such as what hormones you're exposed to in the womb).  but it's not a yes/no or 1/0 type of thing.   Let's give it a scale, say Kinsey-0 to Kinsey-6. 

while a k-0 would find it very unrewarding to be in a same sex relationship, k-6s would find it very unrewarding to be in an opposite sex relationship.

but those in the middle, say k-2, 3 and 4, could go either way.  They could spend part of their life living as a straight person, and part of their life living as a gay person.   While their behavior changed, their underlying orientation did not.

While behavior is learned, orientation is not.

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Re: The Chris Duffy Story...or how he fell from grace...great and interesting re
« Reply #24 on: September 05, 2008, 01:22:42 PM »
exactly, heteros like to believe that someone can be talked into being gay , or turn gay after doing drugs or hanging out with bad people, and that is completely false. 

It reinforces their misguided belief that gay people are bad, and not acutally gay and that they can turn back straight if they want... ::)
Agreed, if your not gay and you see gayness you should be repulsed ..not to be offensive but cause its not a welcomed feeling. Im very tolerant living in the NYC area you need to be but its definitly something your born with, and for that you cant fault a person.
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