Keeping secrets from your wife?

[powerpack]

How many people keep secrets from their partner.

I tell my wife everything.
But I want to do a suicide suspension just once to see what it is like.
You know where they stick hooks through your flesh and lift you up.
It will cost me $200 and my piercer will do it at her house or at a BDSM night club where they do these things enmass.
My wife has forbidden it! 

I wonder if I should secretly do it any way.
What do all the Getbiggers in Getbig land think about keeping such secrets from their loved ones

[Butterbean]

Why would your wife not want you to do this???


 

[Butterbean]

Meanwhile, she will surely find out because there will be wounds where they poke holes in your back right?

Then she'll know you went behind her back and then she may question the trust she has had in you.  She may start wondering if you lie to her frequently.  Then who knows what you'll have to put up with. 

[Perfection]

sounds weird, go ahead and do it dont tell her

[tu_holmes]

Don't tell her anything.

[Geo]

How many people keep secrets from their partner.

I tell my wife everything.
But I want to do a suicide suspension just once to see what it is like.
You know where they stick hooks through your flesh and lift you up.
It will cost me $200 and my piercer will do it at her house or at a BDSM night club where they do these things enmass.
My wife has forbidden it! 

I wonder if I should secretly do it any way.
What do all the Getbiggers in Getbig land think about keeping such secrets from their loved ones

I think if ya want to be suspended in the air with fish hooks, lying to your wife is the least of your problems

[powerpack]

Meanwhile, she will surely find out because there will be wounds where they poke holes in your back right?

Then she'll know you went behind her back and then she may question the trust she has had in you.  She may start wondering if you lie to her frequently.  Then who knows what hell you'll have to put up with. 

Actually the wounds heal very quickly.

I have never lied to her before other than the usual white lies men have to tell their wives " no honey you dont look fat in those jeans etc etc" 

But I do just want to try it once

[powerpack]

I think if ya want to be suspended in the air with fish hooks, lying to your wife is the least of your problems

Every one I know who has done it has told me that as long as you are in the right frame of mind it is amazing.

[Butterbean]

I have never lied to her before other than the usual white lies men have to tell their wives " no honey you dont look fat in those jeans etc etc" 

I don't think she'll believe that if you go ahead w/this against her wishes. 

Maybe you haven't explained how important it is to you?  Is it dangerous or does she just think it's weird?  Does she have an established opinion about people that do this?

Why do you want to try it so badly?

[powerpack]

I don't think she'll believe that if you go ahead w/this against her wishes. 

Maybe you haven't explained how important it is to you?  Is it dangerous or does she just think it's weird?  Does she have an established opinion about people that do this?

Why do you want to try it so badly?

The woman who has pierced me before is very experienced, all the hooks are surgical stainless and are proprly sterilised.
They take you weight and then decided how many hooks they are going to stick in you.

LOL STella there does not always have to be a reason to want to do something and yes my wife thinks it is just to creepy.
I did not think she would be against it, I actually orginally aproached her because I wanted her to take photos of the event.

[tu_holmes]

The woman who has pierced me before is very experienced, all the hooks are surgical stainless and are proprly sterilised.
They take you weight and then decided how many hooks they are going to stick in you.

LOL STella there does not always have to be a reason to want to do something and yes my wife thinks it is just to creepy.
I did not think she would be against it, I actually orginally aproached her because I wanted her to take photos of the event.

Christ, just do it... Don't tell her... She'll never know.

[powerpack]

kill yourself.  

Hah! getting there ............. slowly 

[tonymctones]

Maybe you haven't explained how important it is to you? 

First off dude your crazy...lol second i think stella is right if you have explained that this is really important to you and she still says no i would go ahead and do it but i would pay her the respect to tell her that you are going to do it and explain why you are going against her wishes if not be prepared for her to do the same thing when you dont want her to do somethig.

[w8m8]

First keeping it a secret is only for a time .. you can't heal that quickly and have it be invisible .. right ?

i think stella is right if you have explained that this is really important to you and she still says no i would go ahead and do it but i would pay her the respect to tell her that you are going to do it and explain why you are going against her wishes if not be prepared for her to do the same thing when you dont want her to do somethig.

I agree

Every one I know who has done it has told me that as long as you are in the right frame of mind it is amazing.

I am fascinated with that post .. what is it that you are seeking it to be like ? can you expand on what that desire is .. please ?

[powerpack]

I am fascinated with that post .. what is it that you are seeking it to be like ? can you expand on what that desire is .. please ?

I have know idea what it will be like, but it will be extreme and I want to try it...... just once 
Sorta like having hot wax poured on your back, across your shoulders and down your spine when you are getting frisky.
But like all things in life it is only kinky first time round, hence once is good enough 

[powerpack]

First keeping it a secret is only for a time .. you can't heal that quickly and have it be invisible .. right ?

As the hooks do not stay in as a piercing it heals very quickly, sorta like a bruise.

[Geo]

sure....today it's hanging from fish hooks, but I can see this bizarre little infactuation you have quickly escalating into some crazy shit like slamming your balls in  car doors or shoving greased little gerbils up your ass just to reach that level of "thrill".......


you're on a dangerous path dude !

[tonymctones]

sure....today it's hanging from fish hooks, but I can see this bizarre little infactuation you have quickly escalating into some crazy shit like slamming your balls in  car doors or shoving greased little gerbils up your ass just to reach that level of "thrill".......


you're on a dangerous path dude !

LOL now thats a slippery slope

[chaos]

sure....today it's hanging from fish hooks, but I can see this bizarre little infactuation you have quickly escalating into some crazy shit like slamming your balls in  car doors or shoving greased little gerbils up your ass just to reach that level of "thrill".......


you're on a dangerous path dude !

Or putting little fish in your peehole.

[Lord Humungous]

Every one I know who has done it has told me that as long as you are in the right frame of mind it is amazing.

I cant wait until my son is 17 and tells me " Please dad! everyone is doing it!!"

[Hustle Man]

Call me narrow minded and maybe old fashioned but paying $200 dollars to experience pain, I don't get it! More power to ya and I hope your skin holds tight. Keep this in mind when you sneak to do this without her consent; would you mind if she had some secret fetish she always wanted to do that cost $200, would you mind if she creeped without your consent?

HM (Considerate of the S.O.)

[Laura Lee]

How many people keep secrets from their partner.

I tell my wife everything.
But I want to do a suicide suspension just once to see what it is like.
You know where they stick hooks through your flesh and lift you up.
It will cost me $200 and my piercer will do it at her house or at a BDSM night club where they do these things enmass.
My wife has forbidden it! 

I wonder if I should secretly do it any way.
What do all the Getbiggers in Getbig land think about keeping such secrets from their loved ones

Well, you shouldn't keep anything from each other as it only means you are being deceitful.  And your wife shouldn't "forbid" you from doing things.  She can "suggest" that you don't voicing her concerns for your safety and whatnot, but she shouldn't forbid you.  With that in mind, you should consider "why" she isn't comfortable with you doing it.  Maybe you both can meet in the middle.  You do it, but not be suspended high enough that if you fell down you would be hurt.

I don't keep any secrets from Mike, and I would hope he doesn't from me (although I think he does, and he knows what/why I think that).

[chaos]

Call me narrow minded and maybe old fashioned but paying $200 dollars to experience pain, I don't get it! More power to ya and I hope your skin holds tight. Keep this in mind when you sneak to do this without her consent; would you mind if she had some secret fetish she always wanted to do that cost $200, would you mind if she creeped without your consent?

HM (Considerate of the S.O.)

You're too narrow minded and old fashioned to understand.

[big L dawg]

I have know idea what it will be like, but it will be extreme and I want to try it...... just once 
Sorta like having hot wax poured on your back, across your shoulders and down your spine when you are getting frisky.
But like all things in life it is only kinky first time round, hence once is good enough 

see a shrink

[webcake]

Just do it you freak