Lets get real for 1 second

[boonstack]

Make it known from the start you are not "needy" and dont depend on a bitch fo security. Set a boundary, or if that doesnt work, she has to perform any sexual favor you ask her.

I personally prefer atm.

[Drogon]

Just tell her straight up. In a nice way..like "Hope u don't mind we go dutch. Money is tight."

The unspoken words to her: Take it or leave it. She won't leave u for it if u have a lot more to offer her.

Like a big cock like mine..though I don't know if u're one of the few men in the world that can match up to me in that department.

[Veteran_Lifter]

I work for a living. So does the girl I date. We make about the same amount of money. Why the fuck does she expect me to pay for her food when we eat at the food court?

Why not I pay for my shit, and you pay for yours? 

Am I asking for too much? 

What pisses me off is that these are the same girls who want equal rights and shit.

[just_a_pilgrim]

I always pay for everything because I want to.
Sometimes, she gets pissed off that I always pay for everything so once in a while I let her pay the bill at the restaurant.

 I don't care paying for her, as long as she appreciates it.

the minute she stops appreciating, then it's no more flowers delivered to her job and no more paying bills  

You send flowers to her work? No woman is worthy of that 

[Miss Demeanor]

I work for a living. So does the girl I date. We make about the same amount of money. Why the fuck does she expect me to pay for her food when we eat at the food court?

Why not I pay for my shit, and you pay for yours? 

Am I asking for too much? 

Quite frankly, it sounds like money's more important to you than the relationship.

Then again, the same could easily be said of your girlfriend, so I'm not flaming you at all.

I say find another girlfriend.  Not all of us expect a mealticket.  It should be a roughly equal thing; you pay one time, she pays the next, etc.  50/50's what a lasting relationship boils down to.  Maybe it won't seem like it at times ... there will be occasions when you have to give 90% to her 10.  But in the END, IF the relationship is worth a damn, it will balance out okay. 

[Earl1972]

I work for a living. So does the girl I date. We make about the same amount of money. Why the fuck does she expect me to pay for her food when we eat at the food court?

Why not I pay for my shit, and you pay for yours? 

Am I asking for too much? 

are you at least getting some action from her?

E

[Deadpool]

earl asked the first intelligent question

[Earl1972]

earl asked the first intelligent question

he's really getting fucked over if he's always paying for meals and then going home alone

if he's getting laid it's ok for him to pay, men ALWAYS pay for sex

E

[stormshadow]

I don't care paying for her, as long as she appreciates it.

The words of a Chump.

Way to "convince" yourself that she's "worth it."

[stormshadow]

he's really getting fucked over if he's always paying for meals and then going home alone

if he's getting laid it's ok for him to pay, men ALWAYS pay for sex

E

Not if the woman is married or in a relationship.  They will treat u like a king for providing them with a no strings attached thrill.

[dov]

I work for a living. So does the girl I date. We make about the same amount of money. Why the fuck does she expect me to pay for her food when we eat at the food court?

Why not I pay for my shit, and you pay for yours? 

Am I asking for too much? 

It's a very simple solution: Don't pay for her, period.....if she makes a stink, just sit down and eat your food without saying a word. She'll either get the message or she's a retard...either way, it's not your problem..take care of yourself and let everyone else do the same.

[Hulkster]

I don't understand why you post this here and not tell her yourself.

because if he tells her how he feels, its bye bye pussy for a while..

[Stavios]

You send flowers to her work? No woman is worthy of that 

haha not every week of course, but from times to times.

I don't do that in the beggining of a relationship tho, now we have been together for 9 months or so (maybe a little more), so I try to keep the passion 

usually after 6 month I am fucking tired of the relation  but not this time

[Stavios]

The words of a Chump.

Way to "convince" yourself that she's "worth it."

not really, I never mind about paying for everything.
maybe if I had no money it would piss me off but I am "ok" on that part

[reppin203]

Just stop talking to her.

[Mydavid]

Go for milfs.

Exactly...then we pay for ours AND yours...now that's the ticket

[Mrdibbs]

 

[Sassyclassywoman]

First off, it's obvious that you don't find your relationship with her that important if you worry about going 50/50 with your girlfriend.  IF you are the MAN in the relationship, you are expected to pay.  And if you are worried about not being able to afford food for 2 people at a food court, then you simply aren't even in the financial position to have a girlfriend.  What is more important to you?  Paying for one girl's food for her love and companionship, or being able to be a glutton all the time ALONE.  It's your decision.

[Bear]

I work for a living. So does the girl I date. We make about the same amount of money. Why the fuck does she expect me to pay for her food when we eat at the food court?

Why not I pay for my shit, and you pay for yours? 

Am I asking for too much? 

She obviously doesn't want to have sex with you enough to not require some monetary persuasion?!?

[Stavios]

First off, it's obvious that you don't find your relationship with her that important if you worry about going 50/50 with your girlfriend.  IF you are the MAN in the relationship, you are expected to pay.  And if you are worried about not being able to afford food for 2 people at a food court, then you simply aren't even in the financial position to have a girlfriend.  What is more important to you?  Paying for one girl's food for her love and companionship, or being able to be a glutton all the time ALONE.  It's your decision.

This post is exactly what is wrong with women 

[spinnis]

I always pay for everything because I want to.
Sometimes, she gets pissed off that I always pay for everything so once in a while I let her pay the bill at the restaurant.

 I don't care paying for her, as long as she appreciates it.

the minute she stops appreciating, then it's no more flowers delivered to her job and no more paying bills  

I wanna focking slap you stavios.

[chainsaw]

Because women only want equal rights when it benefits them.

So true.
Soooo True.
Is there any truer statement?

[Mydavid]

I used to pay all the time because i never wanted to "owe" anyone anything

[CalvinH]

I'm sure it's gonna make you go broke to pay for food at the "food court".food at the mall is so expensive.

[Stavios]

I wanna focking slap you stavios.

why so, stud ?
it's the first time I actually think I'll be with a woman for a while so I make some efforts