Lets get real for 1 second

[Tapeworm]

This post is exactly what is wrong with women 

Yeah but she's 'classy.'

[Fatpanda]

haha not every week of course, but from times to times.

I don't do that in the beggining of a relationship tho, now we have been together for 9 months or so (maybe a little more), so I try to keep the passion 

usually after 6 month I am fucking tired of the relation  but not this time

stavios, she will leave you before the year is over.

[Stavios]

bullshit 

no one ever leaved me, and it won't happen anytime soon

[Veteran_Lifter]

I work for a living. So does the girl I date. We make about the same amount of money. Why the fuck does she expect me to pay for her food when we eat at the food court?

Why not I pay for my shit, and you pay for yours? 

Am I asking for too much? 

Show her this thread:

http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=238083.0

It might help bring her down to earth a little if she realizes that her vagina smells like FISH.

[PANDAEMONIUM]

I work for a living. So does the girl I date. We make about the same amount of money. Why the fuck does she expect me to pay for her food when we eat at the food court?

Why not I pay for my shit, and you pay for yours? 

Am I asking for too much? 

Stop being such a cheap bastard.  And stop whining.  You sound more like a bitch than your supposed girlfriend does.




Wait...aren't you that twink whose girlfriend looks like an over-used vietnamese tranny hooker?

[mahg]

Stop being such a cheap bastard.  And stop whining.  You sound more like a bitch than your supposed girlfriend does.




Wait...aren't you that twink whose girlfriend looks like an over-used vietnamese tranny hooker?

Fuck you stupid. 

Your mom looks like an over-used vietnamese tranny hooker. 

[mahg]

First off, it's obvious that you don't find your relationship with her that important if you worry about going 50/50 with your girlfriend.  IF you are the MAN in the relationship, you are expected to pay.  And if you are worried about not being able to afford food for 2 people at a food court, then you simply aren't even in the financial position to have a girlfriend.  What is more important to you?  Paying for one girl's food for her love and companionship, or being able to be a glutton all the time ALONE.  It's your decision.

What kind of "classy" woman expects a handout and free lunch? Women need to have some self-respect and class. It's so archaic: men used to pay when women sat at home and raised kids n didn't go to school, but everyone gets an education and has jobs now, so why should women expect men to give them handouts in life? It's more assy and less classy. I can afford the food but I want to save for my future as well. 

[Sassyclassywoman]

Any self-respecting woman does not go for guys that go "dutch".   Sorry...  but that is the tradition here and it's most-likely going to stay.

[Stavios]

Any self-respecting woman does not go for guys that go "dutch".   Sorry...  but that is the tradition here and it's most-likely going to stay.

Please explain your point.

Not disagreeing with you, as I always pay. I just don't get why you think the guy owe you something for going out with him ?

[muscleforlife]

I work for a living. So does the girl I date. We make about the same amount of money. Why the fuck does she expect me to pay for her food when we eat at the food court?

Why not I pay for my shit, and you pay for yours? 

Am I asking for too much? 

usually when a person asks another person out for a meal, the person asking pays for the meal unless otherwise stated.

When I go out with friends, it is understood we pay for our own food, drinks, movie ticket, etc.

When it is a boyfriend/girlfriend/lovers/married couple the man usually pays unless other arrangements are made.
Sandra

[freespirit]

Any self-respecting woman does not go for guys that go "dutch".   Sorry...  but that is the tradition here and it's most-likely going to stay.

You need to humble yourself down to the point of who you actually are, sassy. And, self-respect is not the same as arrogance. You have work, you get paid a salary, you go buy your own food. Plain and simple.

[Fatpanda]

bullshit 

no one ever leaved me, and it won't happen anytime soon

if you keep treating her like a princess you will lose her, than before you know it you'll be on here crying and melting all over the place like 2powerful4u 

[Stavios]

it won't happen !

I don't treat her like a princess at all, I just sometimes do gestures to let her know that I care about her.
In fact we most often do what I want to do, see movies that I want to see etc..

[tbombz]

Your the nice guy that always finishes last. And if she breaks it off with you or you find out she cheated on you? First thing outta your mouth is "And after everything I did for you?!". Us, we, and ours are three words you should never say around any women!

 

[Stavios]

Your the nice guy that always finishes last. And if she breaks it off with you or you find out she cheated on you? First thing outta your mouth is "And after everything I did for you?!". Us, we, and ours are three words you should never say around any women!

everybody is a relationship expert 

[Sassyclassywoman]

Please explain your point.

Not disagreeing with you, as I always pay. I just don't get why you think the guy owe you something for going out with him ?

If I'm asked out on a date, I'm not paying for dinner.  If I'm a girlfriend in a steady relationship, I still don't pay when my boyfriend takes me.  Don't get me wrong.  We don't go out every night.  I normally cook for him at home every day.

[Earl1972]

If I'm asked out on a date, I'm not paying for dinner.  If I'm a girlfriend in a steady relationship, I still don't pay when my boyfriend takes me.  Don't get me wrong.  We don't go out every night.  I normally cook for him at home every day.

iron his shirt too, woman

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[suckmymuscle]

  IF you are the MAN in the relationship, you are expected to pay.

  Did you just arrive in GH15's time machine from the time of the Eisenhower administration?

  And if you are worried about not being able to afford food for 2 people at a food court, then you simply aren't even in the financial position to have a girlfriend.

  Why is the argument that if you are not able to buy two people food then you're in no position to have a boyfriend any less plausible? We are not living in the stone age. It made sense that bringing home the meat was a "man's job" during the Paleolithic Era, when food came in the form of game, since only men have the natural strengh to hunt. However, how is bringing home the meat any more of a man's job nowadays when bringing home the meat implies working at an office with your ass sitting on a chair inside an air conditioned room?

What is more important to you?  Paying for one girl's food for her love and companionship, or being able to be a glutton all the time ALONE.  It's your decision.

  So you are basically admitting that women are naturally mercenary and will only give you "love" and "companionship"(read "sex") if you buy them stuff and pay their way? You are not being a very good PR for your gender, you know that?

SUCKMYMUSCLE

[Disgusted]

I work for a living. So does the girl I date. We make about the same amount of money. Why the fuck does she expect me to pay for her food when we eat at the food court?

Why not I pay for my shit, and you pay for yours? 

Am I asking for too much? 

Grow some nuts and tell her not us. One seconds up pal. 

[The Coach]

K.....times up!

[suckmymuscle]

Because women only want equal rights when it benefits them.

  Truer words have never been spoken. Women are the ultimate shameless deceivers. They want the right to run for president, but being elegible for the military draft is something they have no interest in. All rights, no responsabilities. Like children.

SUCKMYMUSCLE

[The Freakshow]

Come on.... are there any gentlemen left???

[io856]

Its best not to care and just go dutch. 

[Beefjake]

I always pay for everything because I want to.
Sometimes, she gets pissed off that I always pay for everything so once in a while I let her pay the bill at the restaurant.

 I don't care paying for her, as long as she appreciates it.

the minute she stops appreciating, then it's no more flowers delivered to her job and no more paying bills  

This is so spot on!

I once took this girl to a date. In restaurant, I told her that I hope she didn't expect me to pay everything.
She said, I wouldn't let you.

Now, we kids 4y, 2y and third coming up.


Lesson of story: If she refuses you paying her food. RUN!!!

[The Freakshow]

The meal would have been a lot cheaper.