I always find this interesting.
I am sure as males, should you wife be raped, say most of you are white as well, lets toss out raped by a black man, that it would be great to have your wife have that baby, and you would be thrilled to raise it - with the entire world assuming your wife cheated on you at first as well as the baby is obviously not yours.
There have been girls get pregnant as young as 11 from rape, by their fathers and all no less. I cannot imagine anything worse then that.
I said it before, anyone who talks adoption as an alternative, I hope you are not just blithering on and actually are fostering kids now. There are thousands in the USA stuck in group homes unwanted, so if you feel that consider walking the walk. Talk is cheap.