I'll be going to another funeral. A friend of mine committed suicide. He was a husband, father, and grandfather. Two boys in college. I'm still sort of in a state of shock. I'd really like to know why, but only he can answer that question. I know suicide is a very selfish act, and he just turned his entire family into victims, but I just feel terrible for him because he must have been depressed, and lonely, and didn't think he could reach out to anyone for help. I just saw him last week and didn't have a clue. He looked and sounded the same (always happy). Man. You never know . . . .
I've never had a person I've known this well commit suicide. Not sure what to think.
My daughter asked me if someone who commits suicide can go to heaven. I don't know the answer. I say "yes," particularly if the person was clinically depressed. But who knows?
I do know that I hate death and dying. I'll be back to complain some more whenever I attend his funeral.
Very sorry about your friend, Beach.

I will pray for his family and friends.
As for if a believer who commits suicide can go to heaven, I believe yes. Some people say that these people may lose any rewards they had coming to them, but I believe a believer's salvation is eternally secure.
John 3:16
“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
1 John 5:13
I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God so that you may know that you have eternal life.
Romans 8:38–39
For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
1 John 2:1-2
My dear children, I write this to you so that you will not sin. But if anybody does sin, we have one who speaks to the Father in our defense—Jesus Christ, the Righteous One. 2He is the atoning sacrifice for our sins, and not only for ours but also for[a] the sins of the whole world.