G4P...Were you better off not knowing?

[johnnynoname]

one advantage, I suppose, that gay guys have is that they can be the pursuer or the pursued.  (I'm not talking top or bottom.)   if a straight guy wants to hook up with someone, he has to go out and work for it.  a gay guy can do the same, or he can sit back and let the suitors come to him.

tell me than how is it sooo bad being a gay man then?

besides all the social prejudice, they have it good

[timfogarty]

besides all the social prejudice, they have it good

social prejudice here, gay bashing there, teen hangings by various foreign states

[johnnynoname]

social prejudice here, gay bashing there, teen hangings by various foreign states

all bad things...YES

...but....the random hooking up makes up for it

[Topskin69]

I have often wondered about this.... Would things be a lot easier as a gay man? To be fair... I am sometimes envious of gay men in just how  ridiculously easy sex is, (assuming that you are in relatively decent shape.) If anyone were to take a casual glance at Craigslist hook up ads in the MfM section....you will know what I am talking about... things like "Looking for someone to come over unzip...blow a load in my mouth, then leave...no reciprocation required."  Whats amusing is that ads like this are not uncommon...

Life would be a better place if women thought/acted like that!

Another interesting observation.... I think because sex comes so easy to gay men...that is why so many come off as incredibly superficial, and aloof. Most straight men spend so much energy chasing women to procure sex, that this eats away at a lot of their free time. Well in the case of a gay male...they don't really have to worry about that....so they have to spend there time and mental energy in more absurd fashions....

 Nonetheless...despite some of the perks involved,  I don't think anyone would ever choose to be gay. There is simply way too much emotional hardship involved. IMO

M!

[johnnynoname]

I have often wondered about this.... Would things be a lot easier as a gay man? To be fair... I am sometimes envious of gay men in just how  ridiculously easy sex is, (assuming that you are in relatively decent shape.) If anyone were to take a casual glance at Craigslist hook up ads in the MfM section....you will know what I am talking about... things like "Looking for someone to come over unzip...blow a load in my mouth, then leave...no reciprocation required."  Whats amusing is that ads like this are not uncommon...

Life would be a better place if women thought/acted like that!

Another interesting observation.... I think because sex comes so easy to gay men...that is why so many come off as incredibly superficial, and aloof. Most straight men spend so much energy chasing women to procure sex, that this eats away at a lot of their free time. Well in the case of a gay male...they don't really have to worry about that....so they have to spend there time and mental energy in more absurd fashions....

 Nonetheless...despite some of the perks involved,  I don't think anyone would ever choose to be gay. There is simply way too much emotional hardship involved. IMO

M!

the answer is YES

it sux being a straight man.....
....pussy is the best part BUT even the worlds greatest "player" still has to put some effort into getting it.

judging by how gay men react to me (i know how they stare) I would make a KILLING as a gay

[timfogarty]

judging by how gay men react to me (i know how they stare) I would make a KILLING as a gay

they allow straight guys on model mayhem?

[johnnynoname]

they allow straight guys on model mayhem?

yes

funny though, since i have been their NOT ONE female has contacted me

then again, it's a known fact that most of the photographers in figure modeling are gay.  You pretty much have to be "gay friendly" before entering this "business"

[DeltsaForce]

If anyone were to take a casual glance at Craigslist hook up ads in the MfM section....you will know what I am talking about... things like "Looking for someone to come over unzip...blow a load in my mouth, then leave...no reciprocation required."  Whats amusing is that ads like this are not uncommon...

 I don't take 'casual glances' at that shit. Also, I would prefer a jerk off and some good porn to some homo blowing me or a mans disgusting and revolting hairy anus hole smelling of shit. AIDS lives of these guys

[timfogarty]

then again, it's a known fact that most of the photographers in figure modeling are gay.  You pretty much have to be "gay friendly" before entering this "business"

most of the models are gay too.   the rest, it takes a few beers. 

from the people I know on there, modelmayhem is just an upscale version of manhunt (for casual sex) or rentboy (for escorting).

[DeltsaForce]

why are gay men so scared to admit if they are bottoms? is it a stigma even for them

[johnnynoname]

 

from the people I know on there, modelmayhem is just an upscale version of manhunt (for casual sex) or rentboy (for escorting).

that too,

however, I can say that 7 out of 10 "offers" i get are "legit".  Legit as in legit photographers with legit projects

the rest is offers for solo work- however, the solo work offers I get are in the 1500-2000 range not like the 50-100 bucks you get offered on craig's list

[NarcissisticDeity]

why are gay men so scared to admit if they are bottoms? is it a stigma even for them

Howard Stern always asks guys this very question , most deny it

[DeltsaForce]

Howard Stern always asks guys this very question , most deny it

its weird. its like they can admit to being gay but bending over and taking it in the ass? 'hellz no, thats fag shit'

[NarcissisticDeity]

its weird. its like they can admit to being gay but bending over and taking it in the ass? 'hellz no, thats fag shit'

George Tekeai admitted he used to but doesn't anymore but 99% of the gay men he has on deny it and he calls them out for BSing

[johnnynoname]

George Tekeai admitted he used to but doesn't anymore but 99% of the gay men he has on deny it and he calls them out for BSing

he and brad switch from time to time

[Fatpanda]

its weird. its like they can admit to being gay but bending over and taking it in the ass? 'hellz no, thats fag shit'

dont they all take it up the ass 

i thought it was needed to be gay 

[drkaje]

yes

funny though, since i have been their NOT ONE female has contacted me

then again, it's a known fact that most of the photographers in figure modeling are gay.  You pretty much have to be "gay friendly" before entering this "business"

Gays have a thing called Gaydar which lets them recognize their own.

[johnnynoname]

Gays have a thing called Gaydar which lets them recognize their own.

i'm not gay but then again- I totally look like a queer

I'm tanned, toned, handsome (in a ethnic bad guy in a late 90's van damme movie sense), smell good and dress well....so yes, i totally look like a gay

[drkaje]

i'm not gay but then again- I totally look like a queer

I'm tanned, toned, handsome (in a ethnic bad guy in a late 90's van damme movie sense), smell good and dress well....so yes, i totally look like a gay

If it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck... it's probably a duck.

[DeltsaForce]

dont they all take it up the ass 

i thought it was needed to be gay 

no, they have a thing called tops and bottoms. all gays admit to being tops (doing the sodomizing) none admit to being the bottom ) recipient of penis in anus)
only gay i seen admit he likes to be buggered is baygbm

[suckmymuscle]

George Tekeai admitted he used to but doesn't anymore but 99% of the gay men he has on deny it and he calls them out for BSing

  George Takei is not exactly an icon of masculinity. I bet captain Kirk had some fun tapping that ass - still better than Uhura's, that's for sure.

SUCKMYMUSCLE

[PANDAEMONIUM]

no, they have a thing called tops and bottoms. all gays admit to being tops (doing the sodomizing) none admit to being the bottom ) recipient of penis in anus)

For someone who claims to be straight, you sure seem to know a lot about gay subculture

[timfogarty]

no, they have a thing called tops and bottoms. all gays admit to being tops (doing the sodomizing) none admit to being the bottom ) recipient of penis in anus)

psst, here is a secret....some gays, even some gay couples, are 100% oral

[DeltsaForce]

For someone who claims to be straight, you sure seem to know a lot about gay subculture

epic hypocrisy. or do you admit to being homsexual? i would have thought that were straight as a gay would surely not wear size 44 inch waist walmart special offer pants

[DeltsaForce]

psst, here is a secret....some gays, even some gay couples, are 100% oral

i can understand that tim. i mean, seriously, i shit so much that there is nearly always heaps of turd in my asshole. a gay would get no pleasure from me,