To the guys who are bad mouthing Lana; you don't even know her. All you read are words on a screen but you don't really know WHO she is. Lana IS a very caring and thoughtful person. Her thread is composed of REAL people who are sharing thoughts with each other. If you ever had the pleasure of meeting Lana; I believe your opinions of her would change dramatically. Don't go around bashing Lana when you never even met her. "When we feel love and kindness toward others, it not only makes others feel loved and cared for, but it helps us also to develop inner happiness and peace."