Has anyone here ever been stalked???

[Don_Dada]

I worked with an older woman (early 40's) back 2006. We worked together and I was her personal trainer on the side. She wanted to be a couple and I said no. She wanted to be "friends with benefits" and I said no. I did kiss her a few times....perhaps I led her on a bit. But we never had any sexual contact what so ever. I told her that I was sorry for leading her on but she wasnt for me. She would not stop calling me or texting me! I told her repeatedly to stop calling and to stop the constant texting (especially the texting). She insisted on texing me at all hours. So I eventually changed my phone number.

She was frustrated and began to gossip about me at work. One person actually told me that she felt that God told her that I was going to marry her!!!! I got creeped out. co-workers told me that she was obsessed with me. She made it a difficult place to work at. So I left.

In an email I told her that she was not my type physically or mentally.

I thought I was free from her!!!!

She knew that I went to church.....so see decided to join to my church (I knew something was very wrong)


She has found out where I work now......and she has insisted on applying there (without telling anyone there that she knew me). She was hired. During introductions, I was shocked when I met the new employee!!!!

She is frigging creepy. She hid the fact that she new me when she got hired.

I told her privately that I found it very odd and very creepy that she chose do insert herself back into my life. I told her that I had no interest in her.

She told me she was interested in me either....she said...."Dont read into it, im persuing a dream"

I tried to ignore the situation. But the other day I learned that she is trying to get transferred to my department. . . .so I spoke up...

Management is now aware that I think that she is crazy and following me. I told them that she has intruded into my life and I dont want to be near her her or even see her.


Management is very concerned about that she made a point to hide the fact that she knew me.

I was told that she was questioned about this. I have no idea what was said.





Has anyone gone through anything like this???

[BroadStreetBruiser]

I'm not reading all that just for a guy w/ 44 posts.

[DPump]

2 words

RESTRAINING ORDER

[ASJChaotic]

some girl followed me and camped outside my house in her car for a whole night (until morning) after she saw me at Burger King
does that count 

[Bast000]

I worked with an older woman (early 40's) back 2006. We worked together and I was her personal trainer on the side. She wanted to be a couple and I said no. She wanted to be "friends with benefits" and I said no. I did kiss her a few times....perhaps I led her on a bit. But we never had any sexual contact what so ever. I told her that I was sorry for leading her on but she wasnt for me. She would not stop calling me or texting me! I told her repeatedly to stop calling and to stop the constant texting (especially the texting). She insisted on texing me at all hours. So I eventually changed my phone number.

She was frustrated and began to gossip about me at work. One person actually told me that she felt that God told her that I was going to marry her!!!! I got creeped out. co-workers told me that she was obsessed with me. She made it a difficult place to work at. So I left.

In an email I told her that she was not my type physically or mentally.

I thought I was free from her!!!!

She knew that I went to church.....so see decided to join to my church (I knew something was very wrong)


She has found out where I work now......and she has insisted on applying there (without telling anyone there that she knew me). She was hired. During introductions, I was shocked when I met the new employee!!!!

She is frigging creepy. She hid the fact that she new me when she got hired.

I told her privately that I found it very odd and very creepy that she chose do insert herself back into my life. I told her that I had no interest in her.

She told me she was interested in me either....she said...."Dont read into it, im persuing a dream"

I tried to ignore the situation. But the other day I learned that she is trying to get transferred to my department. . . .so I spoke up...

Management is now aware that I think that she is crazy and following me. I told them that she has intruded into my life and I dont want to be near her her or even see her.


Management is very concerned about that she made a point to hide the fact that she knew me.

I was told that she was questioned about this. I have no idea what was said.





Has anyone gone through anything like this???

so how did it feel coming out of the closet? Were your parents ashamed?

[baker]

This would make a great episode of The Office.

[drkaje]

Yes.

Use the the police. Trust me, crazy people don't stop being crazy on their own.

[dr.chimps]

Yes.

Use the the police. Trust me, crazy people don't stop being crazy on their own.

Good point. At least start a paper trail, so some kind of reference point with regards to this problem exists. 

[BayGBM]

"I'm not gonna be ignored.... Don." 

[benchmstr]

there was a girl in my police academy class who i de-virginized at the movies who stalked me. the bitch fallowed me to my house, to the gym, even to my sisters house 3 hours away!!!

the bitch wouldn't even get out of her car, she just sat there and watched me. My pshycotic Brazilian girlfriend i got shortly after i de-virginized that bitch fixed all that stalking shit though

bench

[Tapeworm]

Yes.

Use the the police. Trust me, crazy people don't stop being crazy on their own.

Good point. At least start a paper trail, so some kind of reference point with regards to this problem exists. 

Exactly.  You have no idea what is going on in her head or what weird/scary/violent shit she'll do in the future.  If the shit hits the fan one night... say she kills herself at your house and tries to make it look like you murdered her, to give an extreme example... you think you're going to wish other people + the police had previous knowledge of what's going on?  Report this shit immediately.  I'd consult a lawyer for advice.


And no.  No one ever cared enough to stalk me.  

[Wiggs]

Yes, twice, I'll tell you about when I return from the gym.

[The Coach]

Yes.......on here daily.

[koolie1]

Chaos stalks me. That boy just wont learn either.

[PANDAEMONIUM]

I'm not reading all that just for a guy w/ 44 posts.

 

[avesher]

Pandae is stalked by pumphard--does that count?

[johnnynoname]

i was stalked once



...................and YES, it was a fucking guy

[benz]

nobody has been stalked in getbig, go and research the exact definition

[ASJChaotic]

nobody has been stalked in getbig, go and research the exact definition

benz you know that I can ask for your IP, give it to FBI and have then at your door right?

[benz]

benz you know that I can ask for your IP, give it to FBI and have then at your door right?

No worry we use a pool of windows xp machines backdored so...bring it 

***edit***
i use eastlink aswel, thats closer to you 

[The Coach]

benz you know that I can ask for your IP, give it to FBI and have then at your door right?

FYI.....you're kinda f**king with the wrong person with that crap.

[ASJChaotic]

No worry we use a pool of windows xp machines backdored so...bring it 

you're seriously an idiot, you take the "internet" way too seriously kid
you take getbig into real life, one day getbig is gonna come into your real life
with a half dozen FBI agents, arresting you for stalking

[benz]

you're seriously an idiot, you take the "internet" way too seriously kid
you take getbig into real life, one day getbig is gonna come into your real life
with a half dozen FBI agents, arresting you for stalking

An idiot? im not the one insulting mothers here, i told you several times to keep it between us but people never learn.
One more thing, a "dozen" fbi agents is old, these days the way you notify people is by calling the isp, get raw logs, match day and # and then the isp must take actions, it is not like in the movies but hey, dont stop trying

[PANDAEMONIUM]

Pandae is stalked by pumphard--does that count?

And don't forget that jap fag "KYOMU"  That creepy bastard has been following me all over the boards lately using such creative insults as "You are not human"

[chaos]

I worked with an older woman (early 40's) back 2006. We worked together and I was her personal trainer on the side. She wanted to be a couple and I said no. She wanted to be "friends with benefits" and I said no. I did kiss her a few times....perhaps I led her on a bit. But we never had any sexual contact what so ever. I told her that I was sorry for leading her on but she wasnt for me. She would not stop calling me or texting me! I told her repeatedly to stop calling and to stop the constant texting (especially the texting). She insisted on texing me at all hours. So I eventually changed my phone number.

She was frustrated and began to gossip about me at work. One person actually told me that she felt that God told her that I was going to marry her!!!! I got creeped out. co-workers told me that she was obsessed with me. She made it a difficult place to work at. So I left.

In an email I told her that she was not my type physically or mentally.

I thought I was free from her!!!!

She knew that I went to church.....so see decided to join to my church (I knew something was very wrong)


She has found out where I work now......and she has insisted on applying there (without telling anyone there that she knew me). She was hired. During introductions, I was shocked when I met the new employee!!!!

She is frigging creepy. She hid the fact that she new me when she got hired.

I told her privately that I found it very odd and very creepy that she chose do insert herself back into my life. I told her that I had no interest in her.

She told me she was interested in me either....she said...."Dont read into it, im persuing a dream"

I tried to ignore the situation. But the other day I learned that she is trying to get transferred to my department. . . .so I spoke up...

Management is now aware that I think that she is crazy and following me. I told them that she has intruded into my life and I dont want to be near her her or even see her.


Management is very concerned about that she made a point to hide the fact that she knew me.

I was told that she was questioned about this. I have no idea what was said.





Has anyone gone through anything like this???

I didn't read all this shit, but it sounds like you're a pussy and you should have fucked that chick, a few times.

Comes across like you are running from the puss, why not just come out of the closet?