I don't have to defend, or justify anything anyone has done...other than myself.
People (including Tom) have made their own decisions in life, including things I never considered like posing for Colt Mag...
I done judge friends for these decisions, assuming they hurt no one else in the process. Tom is one of my closest friends, and will be reguardless of what people like you, who choose to sling mud and point fingers at everyone but yourself, think or say.
If Tom (or any other friend) came to me tomorrow and said he was divorcing his wife and was homosexual...it would have no bearing on what I think of him as a person or as a friend...
Perhaps you should look at your own recent actions and figure out why you're so bitter, or better yet, make the next story about someone you have even more dirt on...yourself.