Yes, she was kidnapped to another country, forcibly had her hair shaved, given slave clothes and given a month to stop worshiping her own gods. Which is what the reference to mother and father means. The priests and elders wanted to be sure that the women didn't "infect" the men with unholy ideas before they went on to rape them.
The kidnapping thing isn’t a factor, because (as mentioned earlier), the penalty for kidnapping someone from their homeland was DEATH. Therefore, the only time this happens is was during the aftermath of combat, in which the opponent was the aggressor.
They went through the sham slave/concubine marriage thing, and if the dude didn't like her after the first assault, he put her out onto the street, without having to give her anything, no money, nothing, except her freedom. It was extremely just and benevolent. I don't know where you keep going with this equality with other wives business. The slaves were released out into the street, with not a single thing.
Not quite, Deedee. As pointed out, once he married her, she becomes his WIFE. If he divorces here, because "he has found no delight in her", that makes her the "unloved" (NASB) or "hated" (KJV) wife. And, that means that she gets entitled to care. Plus, if her son is the ex-husband's firstborn, he gets the bulk of his father's estate, upon Dad's demise.
Who cares what God said or did? You're excusing abuse of a slave/concubine by saying, "oh well, God intervened so all was good." What about all the other cases he didn't intervene? God really has no part in this discussion.
On the contrary, He does indeed. The whole reason that Abe and Sarah did this mess in the first place is because they grew impatient, wondering if God was really going to deliver on His promise to give them a child.
We have NO indication of any mistreatment of Hagar, prior to her getting pregnant, and NO report that she was forced into doing this. The drama between the women starts, once Hagar gets pregnant.
And, the ONLY REASON that Abe agrees that Hagar and Ishmael should leave is because of God's promise that He will care for both Hagar and Ishmael, making Ishmael's descendants numerous, as well.
Once again, you are making the gross assumption, with little to back it, that Hagar was an unwilling participant in this whole surrogate thing. The problem with that is that, per the text, we have NO indication that Abe did anything with Hagar, PRIOR to Sarah's idea that she have this promised child.
As for the other... so, if an owner gave a new slave a wife in order that they should breed, rightfully so, the kids and wife belong to the owner, to sell at will if he wished, and if he happened to feel so inclined, to refuse to sell them to the slave once his time was up. The only option for the impoverished slave was to give himself over to perpetual servitude if he wanted to remain with his family.
Sounds exactly like chattel slavery to me.
I beg to differ. For starters, in chattel slavery, the servant would likely not have that option, whatsoever. Plus, there'd be no law stating that, if a guy came under servitude with his wife, that he'd be allowed to leave with his wife. If the master were allowed to be that cold, he could keep the guy's wife, even if the servant brought his wife with him. But, that's not how it goes.
Plus, there are the other laws mentioned earlier: No kidnapping from foreign lands, status as full wife for foreign women, who get married; servitude being VOIDED, upon major injury of the servants; masters PUT TO DEATH for killing servants, etc.
And, there's the issue of the Jubilee. The servant, after seven years, doesn't leave his former master's house "impoverished".
Deut. 15:12-14
And if thy brother, an Hebrew man, or an Hebrew woman, be sold unto thee, and serve thee six years; then in the seventh year thou shalt let him go free from thee. And when thou sendest him out free from thee, thou shalt not let him go away empty: Thou shalt furnish him liberally out of thy flock, and out of thy floor, and out of thy winepress: of that wherewith the LORD thy God hath blessed thee thou shalt give unto him. And, why did they do this?
Verse 15-18
And thou shalt remember that thou wast a bondman in the land of Egypt, and the LORD thy God redeemed thee: therefore I command thee this thing to day.
And it shall be, if he say unto thee, I will not go away from thee; because he loveth thee and thine house, because he is well with thee;
Then thou shalt take an aul, and thrust it through his ear unto the door, and he shall be thy servant for ever. And also unto thy maidservant thou shalt do likewise.
It shall not seem hard unto thee, when thou sendest him away free from thee; for he hath been worth a double hired servant to thee, in serving thee six years: and the LORD thy God shall bless thee in all that thou doest. So, it appears that, if the male servant is leaving, he's leaving with a healthy amount of livestock, grain, or whatever capital his master has. I'm quite sure the master wouldn't mind negotating, to get some of those sheep, oxen, grain, wine, etc. back, in exchange for the former servant's wife and kids.
To answer something you keep insisting: THERE WAS NO DEALTH PENALTY FOR RAPES PERPETRATED ON UNENGAGED GIRLS.
The father was given the bride-price and hopefully everyone could avoid further shame on the family by marrying off the girl to her rapist. How you can think this is somehow great on a woman's psyche is incredible. That being married to your assailant with somehow relieve the trauma is really repulsive.
Did you not read what I posted?
"I'd say they don't want the bills or the marriage. They'd want the perp to suffer and the payment of the bills, NOT to come out of their own pocket.
Where are you getting this 'lifetime of wages" garnishing business from? People who married the regular way didn't spend a lifetime paying off the bride price, and as in the case of Dinah's rapist, the father was so wealthy he could have paid it off several times over in one shot.
Rape isn't the "regular way". And, in certain circumstances, such as the penalty for besmirching a young woman's character and virginity, there was a lifetime penalty: DOUBLE THE BRIDE-PRICE and marriage (care for the bride) FOR LIFE.