POLL: If your spouse became incapacitated...

[chaos]

There is no choice.......you remain faithful.

Only until the divorce is final, right?

[benz]

Only until the divorce is final, right?

hahahahahaa

[TrapsMcLats]

There is no choice.......you remain faithful.

We agree for once Coach.  Good call.

[big L dawg]

We agree for once Coach.  Good call.

you sure you wanna agree on relationship issues with a guy of his track record.

[TrapsMcLats]

Well, he agrees that remaining faithful is the right thing to do.

[Deicide]

I'm not trying to own Bay, but he needs to understand that there are some of us who are completely committed to our partners.  I know that he's gay and he's dealt with closet homos, but that does not make him the be all end all voice on what people will and won't do when it comes to relationships and monogamy.  If my partner was in a brain dead coma I would still not cheat on her.  yes, it would be difficult, and there would be various moments of rationalization for cheating and great temptation to cheat, but a moment of pleasure would never be worth a lifetime of guilt.

Epic ownage....again.

[Permabulker]

You all are a BIG bunch of liars!  I agree its the RIGHT thing to do.......  But come on now people....     If you couldnt have sex with someone EVER again you would just settle for that?  NOT ME!

[Deicide]

You all are a BIG bunch of liars!  I agree its the RIGHT thing to do.......  But come on now people....     If you couldnt have sex with someone EVER again you would just settle for that?  NOT ME!

I am already there so..no worries.

[Permabulker]

I am already there so..no worries.

So what you are telling me Decide is that "Marriage" is another word for "incapacitated"?  LOL!

[big L dawg]

marriage is a religious/government program designed to get people to conform and obey.

[Permabulker]

marriage is a religious/government program designed to get people to conform and obey.

[Deicide]

So what you are telling me Decide is that "Marriage" is another word for "incapacitated"?  LOL!

Uh, I guess I'm not married though...

[Permabulker]

I am already there so..no worries.

Explain yourself!

[Deicide]

Explain yourself!

I am a chronic loser who gets no pussy.

[Permabulker]

I am a chronic loser who gets no pussy.

But you would if you got some right?  Its not like you throw up your hand in the "stop" position and demand to maintain your celebacy..... 


Actually now that I think about it, your statement has no bearing on the topic.  You dont even have a spouse.  You have wasted my time and everyone elses that reads your posts in this thread.  You sir are an inconsiderate single guy! 

[suckmymuscle]

Do you agree or disagree with this woman's husband?

From today's "Dear Abby:"

Dear Abby:

I need some serious advice.  I was diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis a year ago.  My condition is stable.  I have taken the necessary precautions such as dietary changes, excercise and prescription medications.

My husband and I have been married for 8 years.  This is my second marriage and his third.  My husband is a very stubborn man.  Once he makes a decision he stands by it until death.

He has recently announced that should I become incapacitated and unable to perform my "wifely duties," he is going to find a "sex buddy."  What should I do about this announcement?

   I find it amazing that women expect from men undying loyalty to the end, no matter what. They have no consideration for the strong biological male urge to ejaculate. They truly believe that, if they go incapacitated, that their husbands should go for the rest of their lives without ever having sex again, even if they still have 30 years to live. It is incredible how selfish women are.

SUCKMYMUSCLE

[Deicide]

   I find it amazing that women expect from men undying loyalty to the end, no matter what. They have no consideration for the strong biological male urge to ejaculate. They truly believe that, if they go incapacitated, that their husbands should go for the rest of their lives without ever having sex again, even if they still have 30 years to live. It is incredible how selfish women are.

SUCKMYMUSCLE

Very true.

[boonasty]

you two seem perfect for each other

[Laura Lee]

Do you agree or disagree with this woman's husband?

From today's "Dear Abby:"

Dear Abby:

I need some serious advice.  I was diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis a year ago.  My condition is stable.  I have taken the necessary precautions such as dietary changes, excercise and prescription medications.

My husband and I have been married for 8 years.  This is my second marriage and his third.  My husband is a very stubborn man.  Once he makes a decision he stands by it until death.

He has recently announced that should I become incapacitated and unable to perform my "wifely duties," he is going to find a "sex buddy."  What should I do about this announcement?

Firstly, I find it quite interesting that he's already on his 3rd marriage.

As far as this scenerio goes, if she can't have normal sex because of medical problems there are other things I'm sure she could do for him.  But in the event that she couldn't do anything at all (I would assume she would have to be bed ridden and paralized) I think it would be wrong and low of him.  Life isn't all about sex and considering they have been married 8 years and this is his 3rd...I'm going to guess he isn't a spring chicken in his prime.  For him to have said this to her...well, I don't believe he really has love for her.

And I would feel exactly the same way if the roles were reversed and it was a husband asking this question of his wife.

If god forbid something happened to Michael and he couldn't ever have sex again, I would love him just the same and that wouldn't matter.  If I needed it that bad...there's always plastic    lol

[Karl Kox]

I would never cheat