My G/F wrote this....
ok, well here is the rest of it added on... sadly i cannot spend as much time on it as i would like, so the responses are quite a bit shorter and less informative than the earlier ones. ooohhh and some of them sound a little bitter, so forgive me for coming off that way. i sound a little but like the guy who wrote it unfortunately.
This really offends me. and the fact that you sent it to me makes me question your own beliefs on women's behavior. who ever wrote this is probably a bitter rejected man who has nothing better to do than rip into the thing he could never have: a girl. he obviously doesnt understand women and therefore despises what he doesnt understand. He has no respect for women and that has probably hindered him from ever being in a good relationship which has skewed his judgment even further. i have to admit that a some women may be like this(not just in america, but all over the world), and i cant really speak for anyone but myself, but i know that i am not like this.
1) Selfish- at times yes. anyone who cannot admit they are is a liar. but i'm not so selfish that i do not consider the wishes and well being of the loved ones in my life. love is give and take. idealistically it is giving yourself completely to the other person and having them completely give themself to you. However, we do not live in a dream world so this is not the case. i believe that in order to be truly happy with the person you are with, you need to strive to make them happy and they should do the same. There will be fights and disagreements, and you will not always get your way and they will not always get theirs, but if both want the relationship to work, it will. As for riki and oprah, i dont watch those shows so i cannot comment on the message they are giving to viewers. oohhh and the fact that i dont watch them proves that not all american girls need a talk show host to guide their beliefs and morals.
2)Deluded- ha, its always nice to fantasize about one day having a rich, handsome husband, however no one in their right mind is truly counting on a man to take away all their problems. The more important features, in my opinion, to look for in a man is stability, respect, compatibility, loyalty and of course love. i will not lie and say that physical attractiveness is not important to me, but it is not the only thing. i do not believe i have the delusion that some man will come into my life and solve all my problems, and i doubt that any other sane woman does either.
3)Angry- honestly i'm not too sure what he is ranting about now. everyone has situations in their life that upset them. it is always nice to have someone to talk to about it, and who would be better than your partner? if you cannot talk to someone, or fear that they dont care what you are saying, you should not be with them. yes, sometimes i get upset of meaningless things in my life, but talking it over with someone and discussing it with them (and even having them slap me with the reality that i'm being a dumbass for even letting it bother me) is beneficial to me and will help me be more content. and you should show the same curtsy when someone who has been there for you is upset and just wants someone to listen.
4) Psychotic- again, he doesnt really state the issue. women have more than one emotion so forgive us if we come off as 'psychotic' its not multiple personalities it's multiple emotions. this is the best explanation i can come up with due to the fact that i dont know what the fuck he is talking about.
5) Worthless- how could he ever say that family and a husband is meaningless? just because you dont always get your way doesnt mean you dont love your family or husband anymore. this is so ridiculous i will not even discuss it.
6) Lazy- What the hell? really? Men expect women in their life to take care of them ie, cooking, cleaning, etc. so dont even give me this bullshit about women being lazy. we have to work, take care of children, cook, clean and make our partner happy. is it so hard to believe we would occasionally like something in return? Some women may think they need a maid or nanny, but this is usually because they have a demanding job and require extra help around the house that their husbands either can't or don't give them.
7) Resentful- We all want what we dont have. Not just women. we aren't resentful, just wishful. we dont dislike someone just because they have something we dont.
Greedy- Haha, i actually think thats a funny line. Not that its true, just funny. Yes, women want want their share in a divorce. Something so they can get by in life without the support of their husband. just think of it as return on the wife's taking care of the husband during the marriage; the cooking, cleaning, pampering and looking the other way when they go off for another affair with that other girl. And again not every women is like this, not every marriage will fail. its give and take and men take more than they give and women are getting tired of it. men dont give them the respect and love they deserve during the marriage so women take what they can get during the divorce.
9) Mindless- Women are capable of having intelligent conversations. Men assume women are stupid and do not engage them with a consequent dialog. i, for one, do not read 'women's' magazines so again i cannot comment on the subject matter they contain.
10) Vain- Yes, beautiful women use their appearance to their advantage. This would not be an issue if men didnt allow them to. If mean used their brain more than their cock they wouldn't be manipulated by their women. this is really more a weakness in men than a fault in women.
