if going after family/relationships is off limits, i assume this applies to goodrum and we can look forward to no more comments about vissy or whatever his name is.
QO shakes up the boards nicely and it's cool having him around, but to act like he EVER kept family or wives/boyfriends/fiancees off limits is ridiculous. he tore into alex's and dizzle's girls like mad (not coincidentally, non-white in both cases), plus there's lots of other cases i can't recall off the top of my head. like ron said, "live by the sword, die by the sword".
240 was an "owning machine" when he talked about king's wife (or bob's wife, i forget). dave was ready to crown adonis "owner of the year" for digging into my life and putting all of my personal shit on the board. there was a rash of "exposures" on the V board where people would have their myspace pages, real names, and personal photo albums plastered all over the place even if they didn't want it.
you can be pissed that it happened to someone you like, but you can't say anyone crossed a line with that, it's the same that happened a thousand time to a thousand other posters on the board.