Russian, Arabic, or Chinese? I am thinking of going to a school or using Rosetta Stone.
It is much wiser to ask yourself,
"Which one am I most likely to find the most useful in my lifetime?"If you're going to put the time and effort into learning it, you certainly want to feel there is a future value for it.
My guess is that, living in the United States, you will find Chinese most useful in your lifetime of the 3 you've named.
Imagine the fine Chinese tail you could pull if you could impress them by speaking to them in their native language.